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Topic: How to deal with this??
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Wed 10/17/07 12:55 PM
You just had surgery and you had to go out of town to get it down and your own girfriend wont even come and see you after the surgery. Even when people offered to pay her gas to travel a few hours to see you. What should you do?

heatherrae's photo
Wed 10/17/07 12:57 PM
break up with her.

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Wed 10/17/07 12:57 PM
Did she say why she did go see you? Is it a good reason?

starsandhearts's photo
Wed 10/17/07 12:58 PM
maybe she is just scared to see u in the hospital...have u thought bout that?try calling her.....how close r u 2...good luck,take care & i hope u get all better soonhappy

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Wed 10/17/07 12:58 PM
id be pissed at her. if she really cared about you shed make time to go see you

missfun's photo
Wed 10/17/07 01:00 PM
i wouldnt care what the reason is she should want to see you

vivalosdodgers's photo
Wed 10/17/07 01:01 PM
put her in surgery!!!! ha ha halaugh

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Wed 10/17/07 01:02 PM
she didnt give a good reason. she just hungout with friends all weekend and didnt do anything important

DanielleChristina's photo
Wed 10/17/07 01:05 PM
I recently broke my wrist and I had to get it rebroken and some nasty pins put in. When I was in the hospital all my friends came and brought me flowers and cards. When my boyfriend didnt show i knew that he was just being lazy and would rather fix his truck. So I immediatly knew where his priorities were and that he was always going to put his truck before me.

If your going to pick a truck over me, it has to be lifted atleast 8 inches, and a GMC or a Chevy. Deal? deal.

richelle_b24's photo
Wed 10/17/07 01:05 PM
dump her

vivalosdodgers's photo
Wed 10/17/07 01:07 PM
well what kind of truck was it??? ha ha im just kidding.:wink:

starsandhearts's photo
Wed 10/17/07 01:07 PM
man that's pretty sorry of her to do that 2 u...so she thinks her friends r more important than u....u should just be done w/her and find someone who will care bout u!good luck

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Wed 10/17/07 01:08 PM
I agree with everyone on this one...if she cant make time for something like that when will she make time? Get rid of her and find someone who cares...flowerforyou

countrygirldrfordtr's photo
Wed 10/17/07 01:09 PM
yes break up with her... cuz u can see she does not care or she would have been there for you... flowerforyou

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Wed 10/17/07 01:12 PM
Always remember this...
People MAKE time for what is important to them.

DanielleChristina's photo
Wed 10/17/07 01:13 PM
it was a ford...
not as good as a chevy

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Wed 10/17/07 01:13 PM
kick her a-- to the curb. You deserve better than that, so just say...........NEXT!!!!!

morethanjust_janedoe's photo
Wed 10/17/07 01:14 PM
Auviously she didnt love or care about you to the intensity that you did to her. Talk to her about it, there may be an underlying reason that you do not know or that she has not yet addressed.

unsure's photo
Wed 10/17/07 01:14 PM
Thats pretty sad...I think you really need to look for another girlfriend BUT this time find someone who is more caring!!
Obviously, you are not to important to her...you can find so much better.
Good luck and I do hope you feel so much better!
God blessflowerforyou

mayflower40's photo
Wed 10/17/07 01:15 PM
big red flag dear

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