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Topic: How to deal with this??
redneck_woman21's photo
Wed 10/17/07 01:20 PM
i would have to say dump her because if she did not come visit you parently you are not important to her take it from me i have had my heart broken so many times that it is not funny but please listen dump her!!!!!!!!!!!

kidatheart70's photo
Wed 10/17/07 01:22 PM
Maybe she just can't stand hospitals. I don't like them. I would still visit though.

bluebell's photo
Wed 10/17/07 01:35 PM
i agree with the others kick her a** to the curb, hope your feeling better flowerforyou

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Wed 10/17/07 01:37 PM
get rid of the selfish poser...she sounds like a loser.laugh laugh

beccalee1980's photo
Wed 10/17/07 01:40 PM
wow that just ain't right. i agree with the others. if she truly did care about u, she would have been there..but she would rather spend time with her friends than to go see her boyfriend who is in the hospital? something is wrong with her priorities. i say dump her!
Beccaflowerforyou

im2fun's photo
Wed 10/17/07 01:43 PM
have you talked to her, before you place judgement on her? I have some relation that would never step a foot in the hospital, they just do not do hospitals. Not trying to excuse her just thinking outloud.

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Wed 10/17/07 01:46 PM
Well I was out of the hospital but staying with a cousin by the hospital and she still wouldnt come to see me

Johnjekn's photo
Wed 10/17/07 02:48 PM
Dealbreaker, son.

Jess642's photo
Wed 10/17/07 02:53 PM
Another one sided story.

No second voice. How quick everyone is to ditch, and look for another.

How long had you guys been dating?

How far were you from your home town?

Did she know about the surgery?

How old is she?

Do you two live together?

How well did you treat her?

There are a billion reasons why she may not have visited you, ASK HER why not.

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Wed 10/17/07 03:00 PM
Have you talked with her about this? Has she given a reason you think is valid? If neither of those things have occurred, I think it's premature to 'dump' her or kick her to the curb. There could be any number of reasons....

lilwabbit's photo
Wed 10/17/07 04:18 PM
my uncle recently had a surgery and spent 4 days in the hospital. i didn't go see him a) because im sure he didnt feel like having the kids around and b) i didnt want to have an image like that of my uncle. i knew he'd be home soon, i just didnt want to see him like that. but i think if it were someone i was dating id be there for them to take care of him. my uncle had family there for him, but if its a significant other, they should be there.....

LLH5's photo
Wed 10/17/07 04:22 PM
I'd ask her why. If she didn't have a great answer. I'd show her the door.

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Wed 10/17/07 04:33 PM
Hey Bill dont you ever give up and mind your own busniess??

Timon23's photo
Wed 10/17/07 04:37 PM
I couldnt go and its not cause i was hangin out with my friends it was because my grandmas house caught on fire and my mom neeed me there to help them. So bill you can kiss my ASS and get out of my life

Timorek's photo
Wed 10/17/07 04:40 PM
It is sad and makes you look pathetic that you even have to ask people what to do in this situation.

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