Topic: Meeting Local People
honeysweetc's photo
Wed 10/14/15 08:21 AM
Where u live

no photo
Wed 10/14/15 09:13 AM
honeysweet try reading his profile that is right at the top:wink:

Rock's photo
Thu 10/15/15 03:47 PM
Acquaint yourself with the site's search function. Refine your search criteria.

Nessa100's photo
Fri 10/16/15 02:16 AM
I only find way order men or Indians the nice looking guys are always far away. I wonder why

Annierooroo's photo
Fri 10/16/15 02:34 AM
Edited by Annierooroo on Fri 10/16/15 02:34 AM
There is no one local that interest me
I can't be bothered to even look anymore.
To be honest I am turned off especially now there are better guys elsewhere.
I am waiting till I'm traveling . You never know I might bring home a stray lol

Geez100's photo
Sun 10/18/15 02:36 AM

Hi,
Thank you for writing what you did. I too have met some nice guys, but you really do need to be careful. These so called nice guys are usually scammers. I have gone through about 4 of them, 1 from this site and 3 from
*******. Since then I deactivated my account with*******. So you really do need to be careful. What I do now if I meet a nice guy and he happens to be from another country, even from the U.S., I will save the image that is provided on his profile, open google.com, click on the images icon at the top right hand corner, usually right beside the one of gmail and drag the image to google images. If the images shows nothing, it usually will mean that he is a romance scammer, you can also check the website, male scammers dot com. I hope that you will learn from my advice, because these are losers and I would hate to see someone else hurt of the nice things they will say to you to gain your trust.

I love that advice thank you very much for that

kiranhoti's photo
Sun 10/18/15 03:18 AM

I find that most of the guys who live near me are all kind of the same. I don't feel compatible with them.

kiranhoti's photo
Sun 10/18/15 03:22 AM
But I found that majority of girls are unfaithful and they run behind wealth

Pianoguy4u's photo
Sun 10/18/15 03:40 AM
I moved down to wixom from flint cause I work down here but also a decent musician looking to find a awesome lady to do things with my name is chuck

r1i2t3u4's photo
Sun 10/18/15 03:47 AM
Hello

me_raazz's photo
Sun 10/18/15 04:23 AM
hiii

alberttorres's photo
Tue 10/20/15 10:00 AM
I'm from Brooklyn

MedicineMan_420's photo
Tue 10/20/15 11:16 AM
I will be your stray

MedicineMan_420's photo
Tue 10/20/15 11:17 AM
I drove 300 miles every weekend. Planned some really romantic stuff. Candles, massages and fresh fruit.. Mmm She didn't appreciate it either. I feel your pain. I would do it again though. Love is an adventure.

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 10/20/15 12:36 PM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Tue 10/20/15 12:43 PM
What has worked better for me to date on at least a weekly basis as recommended by my Pastor actually is having a feminine name card (sold in better stationary stores) on which I put the Mingle2.com#screen name or another site I use.

Then selectively I give it to people I see that interest me; usually local and age appropriate. I simply smile and say I would like to get to know you better and give them the card instead of my phone number which I am often ask for but share very sparingly.

If you are out and about in the community especially places known for singles to eat or volunteer it is really easy way to get to know people. I generally don't give someone a card if I have not seen them before. Most people are habitual and you will see them if you are paying attention.

I would say I date about half the people I email with at least three times and several I have dated over a span of several years. It is pretty easy to figure out who is going to be just friends and not romance and I don't generally have a problem with my traditional values being challenged. I have no illusions that some move on because they want sex but it is not rare for someone to "sew their wild oats" and come back around when they find out that is often not going to get them what they want. Sometimes it is why I think I am often invited to company parties and family events because they know I am going to act in a way that reflects well on them. That I follow up all invitations to go out with a Thank You note seems to prevent anyone from feeling exploited. People I have dated for years I try to remember for business referral and their birthdays or holidays in some small way and if they have some kind of health crisis; which is more common as you age that tends to create loyalty with "friends". Also means I have people who will "cue me in" about problem people. That I often introduce "friend zone" gentlemen to other singles means my "friends" tend to greet me and introduce me to their friends.

Perhaps it is my age, the people I pick, but it is very rare that I pick anyone in a place that I would not go to for a date. It is not impossible to meet quality people in bars, casinos, or music venues but the "night life" crowd often isn't a match for me and I usually spend what dating "energy" I have on more promising prospects.

It is sad to say that some of the Mingle long time bachelors on my Match list are there for a reason. Usually it is not severe enough to warrant being blocked but I wish there was a way to be invisible to the ones who I don't consider "date" material.

Comparison viewing does tend to reveal a lot about some folks. If you see someone on another site and they have a "different" persona it is usually a serious red flag.

Occasionally I have met a few duds that say they are single and turn out to be "not" but they are pretty easy to weed out with search engines. I find out something negative I just ignore further contact. Then the dates I go on are generally fun for both even if it doesn't lead to romance.

no photo
Tue 10/20/15 12:36 PM

Where u live

i live in Pakistan

no photo
Tue 10/20/15 12:37 PM
hey every one i am new here on this site and i want to have a sexual relation with a girl if any one is intrested do reply me

Spike1964's photo
Tue 10/27/15 03:57 AM
Yes same problem here gets lots from the USA, Africa, Asia.

Spike1964's photo
Tue 10/27/15 03:58 AM
Edited by Spike1964 on Tue 10/27/15 03:59 AM

hey every one i am new here on this site and i want to have a sexual relation with a girl if any one is intrested do reply me



Good luck with that I need a sick bag lmao.

Spike1964's photo
Tue 10/27/15 08:25 AM
Edited by Spike1964 on Tue 10/27/15 08:47 AM

Hi,
Thank you for writing what you did. I too have met some nice guys, but you really do need to be careful. These so called nice guys are usually scammers. I have gone through about 4 of them, 1 from this site and 3 from
*******. Since then I deactivated my account with*******. So you really do need to be careful. What I do now if I meet a nice guy and he happens to be from another country, even from the U.S., I will save the image that is provided on his profile, open google.com, click on the images icon at the top right hand corner, usually right beside the one of gmail and drag the image to google images. If the images shows nothing, it usually will mean that he is a romance scammer, you can also check the website, male scammers dot com. I hope that you will learn from my advice, because these are losers and I would hate to see someone else hurt of the nice things they will say to you to gain your trust.


Interesting will check male scammers.com out for a female friend of mine.
Just read through the scamming list they all seem very obvious to me easy to avoid don't send money for a start lol.