Well in all honestly, I don't think it's a problem for me, but I also accept that I'm human,I.E; completely blind to some of my most obvious faults! My best gal pal of three years tells me that my avoiding a relationship and obvious doubts on most people ideas of true love is a sign. Also the fact That I've had he chance to have boyfriends with things getting (ever so delightfully) close to serious, and me just backing out. I even admit that while in a relationship, I do tend to spaz a little when I feel Things are moving to fast, But I take that as a sign to back down. I have no qualms with being single, until I'm happy with my mate, and I'm sick of folks trying to marry me off! It just seems like everybody knows the perfect guy for me. The have me wondering what others think of me because we are not on the same page.

Okay.....but what is it you are trying to say.......
?????

they're not stuck with the check for a bad meal, either. what's the rush?

Do I have actual commitment issues? or overbearing friends and family who can't take no for an answer. At first It didn't bother me but, it seems to be a favorite topic amongst family and friends.

i think she wants to know if she has a tendancy to avoid or run from commitment....i'm not sure anyone here can tell you that without knowing you. you might, you might not. while you have every right to not see someone or not be interested, the question really is, why are you breaking these relationships off. are you finding a fault just to get away, are you really not interested, or do these guys all have similar issues. then you have to ask if its that you're into the wrong type of guy or if....etc etc etc. i mean even i'd have to know way more than could be conveyed on here and even then, no one could be definitive.

your family wanting you too doesn't mean you have commitment issues. the question is yours, do you find yourself averse to the idea? do you have strong feelings against intimacy? i noticed your profile identifies two or three traits that kind of say "back off" or "beware" which does make me wonder if you are defensive...but again..i don't think anyone else can tell you..

No... No way, you're 18 and pretty and you need to stop that right now. You be you and let others who know who they are find the you they know in themselves. Dangnab it... I almost confused myself!

Maybe its not so much commitment issues. Maybe its just your natural instinct telling you he wasn't the right guy for you. I think when the right guy comes along, it won't be a big deal anymore. ;)

Good luck!

Tell them you're a lesbian.....that'll shut 'em up on the committment subject for a while......

looks like you are afraid to let anyone get close to you. You don't want anyone to really know who you are and when that starts to happen you back off. Wouldee said your 18? i haven't looked at your profile and if so, I wouldn't worry about any commitment right now. you have your whole life ahead of you and to be so serious at that age is not fair to yourself.

heheheheheheh Youngsters are hermaphriditic lily,,, Nope

hermaphroditic and...what does that have to do with attraction? though good catch on the age thing wouldee..that was a good point.

Hmm lily you might be on to something......

Now I don't runaway from relationships, I just get to the point of hmm, Do I really want to be with this person, and after my last guy, the answer always seems to be no. To clear it up, no I'm not still stuck on him, nor do I judge guys to his standards. if I fif they would all pass with flying colors.

and thank you wouldee:

It is called Avoiders. "The Fear of failure". You are trying to avoid, thinking if or not can you succeed in a relationship.
However like everyone said, Yes, You still lots to play with before you decide. And for those that push you, Just tell that - You still want to play the ground

or maybe that person is afraid to fall in love because they are afraid of getting hurt and its easier to be single?

oH SNAP!!!

the avoiders eh? I can live with that.

go gypsy...go....