Well, after all these years, I miss remembering what it is that I miss.


I honestly can no longer remember what it is like having someone in my life. The good or the bad. I remember it happening, I just don't remember what it was like. So I guess that is what I miss???

I really miss going to buy some thing...and then using my debit card just to find out there's no money in the account... because she couldn't live without several more pairs of very expensive shoes.. oh I miss that so much.. lol

Did you hear about the guy comes home, his wife is mad and wants him to go downtown and beat up the shoe salesman. He wants to know why? She says "When I sat down to try on a pair of shoes he looked up my skirt, I had no panties, He says, I would like to fill that up with ice cream and eat it"
He says, NO Way!

#1 you have 28 pairs of shoes and don't need any more shoes.
#2 If you are trying on shoes you should wear your panties.
#3 There is no way I am going to tangle with any man, who can eat that much icecream.

No1 You should look for a Woman with these qualities...BTW... Statement 6 is for you No harm intended

I started working with the Law of Attraction the other day, visualizing the right partner is already there, setting the table for 2 even.

And I was surprised to find out I miss dining together. I never thought that would make such a difference to me.

Also the in between brief touches, kisses, smiles. Having fun during chores.

yes crystal it truly is all the little things that are usually missed the most

Yes, indeed. I just wasn't aware, not consciously missing them. I think because I got treated like chit by my ex for years on end. So when I got to be alone again, I felt nothing but intense relief!

I only had to get used to having to put the bin out myself once a week (I didn't even know which way around it was supposed to sit ), having to deal with spiders myself, or a leaking roof, or the fence almost being blown to smithereens etc.
The rest ... I missed nothing, cos there wasn't anything much to miss.

Of late I seriously started to think: "What for god's sake is the added value of a partner again?"
I really couldn't think of anything much. Nothing that touched the heart.
Not until I started doing that visualization, then I truly felt it!

yup the little things. like that touch on the way by just because. or the giggle cuz of something silly said or done

True Love vs Fake love

True Love is always open and honest, even when upset.
Fake love plays games, hides their feelings and tries to manipulate the emotions of others to gain the upper hand.
True Love is self-sacrificing.
Fake love only wants what it wants.
True Love gives from the heart.
Fake love gives because it wants something in return.
True Love forgives.
Fake love seeks vengeance.
True Love appreciates you for who you are.
Fake love tries to change you into their perfect ideal.
True Love is romantic intimacy and love making.
Fake love is just sex.
True Love tries to resolve Conflict.
Fake love tries to prove it is right.
True Love lets go of hurts.
Fake love harbors resentment.
True Love gives you the freedom.
Fake love is controlling.
True Love listens.
Fake love only talks.


Did anyone have trouble seeing the poster I just put up??? If so here it is after I typed it in WORD

no it came across just fine

Thanks Eric for letting me know

No we heard you just fine! My ears are ringing

I Miss Dancing

The simple things... Like holding hands

It seems like most of the men on here don't really like women, or they have had really bad relationships. That's sad.

I miss falling asleep with a great guy.

I miss kissing for hours.

I miss being able to talk to my man about things that happened throughout the day.

I miss having a man who is always on my side, and I will always be on his side.