Do dreams really come true? Every night, when I go to bed, I lie there and think about what's missing from my life. I have just about everything a person could want, but there is, and has been, something missing for nearly 5 years. And that is a woman who I can be romantic with. A woman who I can love with all my heart. So at night, I dream about what type of woman I would like to have in my life.

Physically, I couldn't create a more perfect woman! She has beautiful eyes that pierce my soul. They hypnotize me and set my heart on fire! Her lips! OMG!! Her lips were made for kissing! So soft and full! They create a beautiful frame for her beautiful smile!! Sometimes she smiles to show how happy she is. Sometimes she smiles to show how naughty she wants to be! lol!! She has soft, flowing hair that I imagine smells like wildflowers on a sunny, spring morning! Here body was made for me! Not too skinny and not too fat. It's toned and tan and curvy in ALL the right places!! She has cute, dainty hands and cute little feet. She wears just enough make-up and nail polish to accentuate her natural beauty, a natural beauty that radiates to warm and brighten my heart! When I see her, I want to touch her soft, smooth skin and smell her sweet, intoxicating scent!!

But the girl of my dreams isn't just beautiful on the outside. Oh no!! Her inner beauty shines brighter then the sun in the sky on the first day of summer!! She's funny and sweet and playful and smart and passionate. But she's not perfect. Perfect is boring. She has flaws. She has issues. She needs you as much as you need her. She wants to live life to it's fullest. She wears her emotions on her sleeve, but keeping your emotions there means its easy to get hurt. And she's been hurt. She's had her heart broken into a million pieces, but she found the strength to put all the pieces back together. Well, almost all of them. I think she's missing one piece. The same piece I'm missing.

How would my dream girl fit into my life? We would go to a movie together. Share a box of popcorn. Our hands would touch as we reach into the box at the same time. We would look at each other and smile! Later during the movie, we would hold hands. I'll lean over and kiss her, showing her how happy I am that she's there with me! She'll put her head on my shoulder showing me how happy she is that I'm with her! We would do everything together. Art shows, concerts, sporting events. What the event is doesn't matter. What matters is that we're together. But we would be so comfortable with each other, we would trust each other enough that I could go out with the boys and she could go out with the girls. We could have a good time apart but the whole time, we would sneak glances at our watches anxiously waiting for when we will be together again.

Our physical relationship would be amazing! I would make love to her body, her mind and her soul! We would't just be joined physically, but spiritually as well. But let's be honest. Two people with that much passion sometimes just have to ****! **** long and hard!! lol!! We would get sweaty. The sheets would be strewn all over the room and maybe a lamp or two would be broken. We would have so much fun, we wouldn't care about the bruises we got or how sore we will be the next day! We'll just laugh about it and look forward to the next time!!

It's not all about good times, though. Everyone experiences bumps on the road of life. My dream girl would be there for me when I was sick. Be there for me when I was sad. She would be there for me when I was angry. She'll let me swear and yell, and then when she knew I was ready, she would smile and try to make me laugh. I would do the same for her. I'll empty her garbage can that's full of snotty tissues when she has a cold. I'll hold her tight and let her cry on my shoulder when she's sad. I'll let her swear and throw things when she's angry and when I think she's ready, I'll grab her and tickle her just long enough to make her laugh and smile and forget what she was mad about in the first place. The best thing, though, will be just being together. Sometimes we'll sit for hours talking, about everything and anything. Sometimes, we'll just sit quietly listening to music. Sometimes, we'll just sit curled up together on the couch watching a movie. It won't matter what the movie is, just being in each other's arms will be all that matters.

Listen. I'm old enough now. I've matured and learned a lot. I have the whole rest of my life to live. I dream of someone who I can live that life and be happy with. I wonder if dreams really do come true.

very nice...and yes dreams do come true...just keep believing

Dreaming is the first step to making things happen.
xoxoPeaches.

I agree 100% with Peaches...

yes they can

Yes! Dreams do come true. Never give up on what you are looking for, no matter how long it takes. Never settle!!

I wonder myself at times but I believe God placed one true person on this earth for me and someday I will find him.... Until then I get my heart broken in the search although I am still younge and still have plenty of time to find him I am just tired of the rat race some are lucky to find and marry thier high school sweethearts but not me. I have dream of my prince charming for as long as I can remember but the heart break is what he will come and rescue me from I know it. by the way wonderful writting.

Never stop dreaming...

You never know- they may just come true!

(((( Ben )))) yes hon.. dreams DO come true! So keep dreaming And be sure to let us know when she gets there

Blessings ~

hi. I would like to say just don't get so stuck in the dream that you forget to look around you. I'm afraid you might miss her. Your post makes me wonder if the guys on dating sites that I e-mail are having the same kind of dream. They rarely answer my e-mails and it is very hard to write to them, and getting harder all the time to open myself up for rejection. I just wonder if the guys on the daing sites are so caught up in their "dream girl" that they won't even take a chance to write back or try to meet a woman when she writes to them. How can you find her if you don't reply to her e-mails??

your post was a real jolt of what i hope is not reality on the dating sites. I'm getting off the 3 other ones i am on right now.

Imagine this though. You see your actual dream girl walking around in real life. What are you going to do?! You know what a horrible pickup line that would be to say, "You are my dream girl!".

Dream are nice btw

Good point, Pong!

I agree with Donnar. Some of the things you seek in your "dream girl" are not terribly realistic, and I think you are putting too much pressure on the potential gal, as well as yourself. Don't be looking to hard for the optimal "dream girl", 'cause you may miss the best mate you could ever hope for in the meantime.

Also, I don't know if the detailed description of your potential sex life with the "dream girl" was posted in the correct forum.....I don't know if it was even necessary....Iccckkk!

after being around this old world as long as have I feel that you have too high expectations, the girl you describe probably does not exist. look around and see if you can find the one with the most important of the features you describe.

Sadly, the perfect woman or man does not exist but perfect for you does. Life is a series of compromises. What on your dream girl is negotiable? That is the question. Once you have made the choices of what is a definite and what is possible and what can be given up then you will be able to find her. To be human is to be imperfect but exeptional all at the same time. Or at least that is what I think anyway.

Dont give up bro!

The mind can be a wonderful thing and dreams can come true if you believe and don't doubt.

Don't let it obsess you,you are on the cusp I think.No offence just a tired opinion.Stay open to all:seek you thall find:

A cousin of mine once told me that his dream girl was a tall, sexy, leggy blond. He found her and dated her but fell in love with a friend of hers, who was a petite, dark-haired little fire-ball. They've been married over 35 years and have four kids. I would think it pays to keep your options open.