100% FREE ONLINE DATING
sponsored links
| Topic: any ideas for improvement | |
|---|---|
|
|
|
I joined just to see what was out there. I have decided to give it a try,so I think I'd like some advice. I haven't dated in like 10 years, so this should be interesting, lol. I'm a mess, please help
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
 redneckpapa
Welcome to Minglez U joined in just about the same time as me here is my comment 1) maybe u might consider adding a few more photos so people can see other sides to your personality 2) Interests: I'll tell you later ~ not a good idea If u wanna start dating again after 10 years, u gotta tell'em your interests dear... if a gurl has nothing to work on, it will be difficult 3) quote: I'm rough around the edges, but I am very loving ~ this is a great description of yourself 4) quote: Maybe meet that special someone. Not in a hurry though ~ this is a good message you are potraying that you aren't hasty in your life choices Good Luck sweetie Hope You find what you're looking for 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I liked your profile, I thought it was honest and sweet. I liked the fact that you mention your kids.
Now for the blunt bit, your pic needs discarding. You look like an extra out of some rap song video. Granted some girls would go for that look but I'd imagine most wouldn't, not from a 38 year old anyway. You seem like a good guy so here's wishing you well |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
everton fan
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
that is some beard ya got going on there
I agree add some more pics 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
everton fan
Yes, I'm sorry for my sins but someone's got to be lol 
We're doing ok at the mo, without being brilliant of course. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
hehe...
i'm a Madridista (Real Madrid fan) But i'm ok with everton  
sry mods |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Edited by
redneckpapa
on
Sun 09/27/15 08:44 AM
|
|
Thank you all for your advice. I will add more pictures and list some interests. Lol. The profile pic wasn't my first choice, I took it at work real quick because mingle kept saying my others were to large. And thank you for wishing me luck, I definitely need it.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
our pleasure
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
nice new pic
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
nice new pic
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
nice hat
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Okay profile. The only thing that bothers me is the thing about the children.
I'm not looking to be someone's nr 4 on the list. I'm not a black & white person, but if it comes to that, I am: If you don't have time in your life for a partner, can't and won't give her your full attention, only have some leftover crumbs for her, and intend to jump whenever the kids scream "jump", then don't date yet. Not really fair to a potential partner. Wait till they're older or have left the nest. Or learn to find a healthier balance between partner and children. At the very least give an indication of their age. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
nice hat
Agree
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Okay profile. The only thing that bothers me is the thing about the children. I'm not looking to be someone's nr 4 on the list. I'm not a black & white person, but if it comes to that, I am: If you don't have time in your life for a partner, can't and won't give her your full attention, only have some leftover crumbs for her, and intend to jump whenever the kids scream "jump", then don't date yet. Not really fair to a potential partner. Wait till they're older or have left the nest. Or learn to find a healthier balance between partner and children. At the very least give an indication of their age. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
they are 10, 8 and 6. You're absolutely right though. I cannot put anyone else before my children, I should probably just stay single. Thanks for the help ladies, but never mind.
Don't listen to her sweetie Not every woman feels the same way I certainly don't I love children any age I've been with a man that had a sick little baby I took care of I've been with a man that had teenagers I've been with a man that had five kids for me to look after Don't give up Different women look at things in a different angle 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
share what is in your heart
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
he left the building after saying goodbye
|
|
|
|
|
