Topic: why are men so confused?
Rock's photo
Tue 09/22/15 07:32 PM
Edited by Rock on Tue 09/22/15 07:34 PM
People want what people want.

Knowing this, it's human nature to mold ourselves into what our own interpretation of what a potential mate may want, that we often completely miss the mark altogether.

On the surface, a particular woman may appear to be "what I want", physically, intellectually, and personality-wise.

As the facade is scratched, and we see what's "inside", she may be perfect in all aspects, but not exactly what/who I thought she was.

It's not "confused".
It's called the learning process.

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Tue 09/22/15 07:35 PM

why are men so confused in what they want? they say they look for a women who has this and that but when they find her they don't know how to appreciate her.. I don't get it
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Tue 09/22/15 07:38 PM
Edited by Libido42 on Tue 09/22/15 08:20 PM
I am not confused. Just want a woman who will do what it takes to make me happy. And i will love her forever

TrystaBella85's photo
Tue 09/22/15 07:40 PM
How thrilling, I hope you're willing to do whatever it takes to make her happy, too, otherwise, it sounds like a lot of one-sided loving (serving) to me....

twohours's photo
Tue 09/22/15 08:12 PM
Is the woman honest in saying she has this and that? I think it goes both ways. It's impossible to find a perfect match that satisfies all your requests, what's perhaps more important is how far you are prepared to adapt and " give a little" to make it work. It's it's dead move on, but don't expect miracles overnight every relationship needs maintenance. The results can be immense if both oil the squeaky chain. Take care.

no1phD's photo
Tue 09/22/15 08:13 PM
I'm willing to meet her halfway..:angel:

1Marie63's photo
Tue 09/22/15 09:12 PM

People want what people want.

Knowing this, it's human nature to mold ourselves into what our own interpretation of what a potential mate may want, that we often completely miss the mark altogether.

On the surface, a particular woman may appear to be "what I want", physically, intellectually, and personality-wise.

As the facade is scratched, and we see what's "inside", she may be perfect in all aspects, but not exactly what/who I thought she was.

It's not "confused".
It's called the learning process.


I agree. People aren't always who they appear to be. Sometimes it takes a while to figure that out

PacificStar48's photo
Wed 09/23/15 12:12 PM

why are men so confused in what they want? they say they look for a women who has this and that but when they find her they don't know how to appreciate her.. I don't get it


Because they have been sold a bill of goods that if they can catch what they thought they wanted that they can want just a little bit "more" of this and that so they go out to find it.

TMommy's photo
Wed 09/23/15 12:13 PM
ahhhhh ...the BBD syndrome bigsmile

smileymk's photo
Wed 09/23/15 12:22 PM
Edited by smileymk on Wed 09/23/15 12:23 PM

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Wed 09/23/15 12:33 PM
insufficient volume of blood in the male body

SitkaRains's photo
Wed 09/23/15 12:37 PM

Is the woman honest in saying she has this and that? I think it goes both ways. It's impossible to find a perfect match that satisfies all your requests, what's perhaps more important is how far you are prepared to adapt and " give a little" to make it work. It's it's dead move on, but don't expect miracles overnight every relationship needs maintenance. The results can be immense if both oil the squeaky chain. Take care.


I do believe it is a lot of give and take to make imperfect people into a perfect relationship for them. Doesn't have to be understood by anyone else just them.

TawtStrat's photo
Wed 09/23/15 12:52 PM
How do you know that you're what they really want? Because they told you so? More likely what they really want is an unatainable fantasy. It's like when someone doesn't have enough money to buy a top of the range car and they then say that all that they really want is something reliable that gets them from A to B.

Conrad_73's photo
Wed 09/23/15 12:55 PM

I am not confused. Just want a woman who will do what it takes to make me happy. And i will love her forever


bigsmile

Conrad_73's photo
Wed 09/23/15 12:57 PM

insufficient volume of blood in the male body

need another five Quarts?laugh

Sileia's photo
Wed 09/23/15 05:31 PM
In my experience men are always confusing.I knew of this one boy I thought we could be friends. Apparently he did not get memo in that area. He manhandle me and it made wonder if men are liked cavemen. Either they do not get memo what friendship is or tell someone bigger then dude and then stopped because he does not want the other person hurt him.He keep tried to a kiss me after that first kiss I was not interesting remotely gosh you kiss slobbery dog or fish tried to a smother my air way.That my reason for being no longer interest that is what happened in school year.

Sileia's photo
Wed 09/23/15 05:31 PM
In my experience men are always confusing.I knew of this one boy I thought we could be friends. Apparently he did not get memo in that area. He manhandle me and it made wonder if men are liked cavemen. Either they do not get memo what friendship is or tell someone bigger then dude and then stopped because he does not want the other person hurt him.He keep tried to a kiss me after that first kiss I was not interesting remotely gosh you kiss slobbery dog or fish tried to a smother my air way.That my reason for being no longer interest that is what happened in school year.

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Wed 09/23/15 05:56 PM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Wed 09/23/15 05:59 PM
Men...meh...don't blame them..we send mixed signals as women just to get a reaction. ..sometimes..and half the time we're never satisfied surprised
Hell I stay confusedhuh whoa

kc0003's photo
Wed 09/23/15 06:05 PM
Edited by kc0003 on Wed 09/23/15 06:09 PM
it's not that we are confused at all. it's more a case of.......ummm wait for me here, (i may return) i think i just saw a newer and possibly better thread walk by...

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Wed 09/23/15 06:15 PM


I am not confused. Just want a woman who will do what it takes to make me happy. And i will love her forever


bigsmile

Ha ha ha ha..OMG that cartoon was so funnyrofl
I remember watching that!:)