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Oh gee, I showed up to this party after the OP deactivated.
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How thrilling, I hope you're willing to do whatever it takes to make her happy, too, otherwise, it sounds like a lot of one-sided loving (serving) to me.... Bullseye. how many times did i see this on OKC and PoF... condensed version: "need man to make me happy. will love him" even more condensed: "need a servant" |
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How thrilling, I hope you're willing to do whatever it takes to make her happy, too, otherwise, it sounds like a lot of one-sided loving (serving) to me.... Bullseye. how many times did i see this on OKC and PoF... condensed version: "need man to make me happy. will love him" even more condensed: "need a servant" Yep....they're in for a very long wait, 
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why are men so confused in what they want? they say they look for a women who has this and that but when they find her they don't know how to appreciate her.. I don't get it Neither do I get it. 
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not confused. I just prefer being around one that's polite n peaceful that enjoys sex enjoys simple things. one that's not materialistic. if I hear I need this I need that or do this do that. I'm enjoying life in the most fun peaceful way I can. if you disturb my peace and my smile go find a man that will put up with you. I'm not a servant. nor do I ask to be served.
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2Kids said it best.....mixed signals...occasionally guys are known to send mixed signals, but mostly when he was confused by her mixed signals.
It's one reason why I try to be clear and concise with my thoughts, but even then sometimes thoughts get murky and mixed....so best to just ask a question if confused. |
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why are men so confused in what they want? they say they look for a women who has this and that but when they find her they don't know how to appreciate her.. I don't get it I believe its not really being confused but it's about EXPECTATIONS, ACCEPTANCE & CONTENTMENT. It's human nature that people have expectations of the ideal woman or man in their lives. No matter how much they know each other during the dating, in the long run as relationship grow deeper , both partners begin to see the reality as it unfolds. So when imperfections come out and reality had not lived up to their expectations,every individual then longs to have more of this and more of that in life, they never get satisfied and happy with what they have . Acceptance of each others imperfections becomes a hindrance to attain their contentment in life which leads to their confusion of what they really want in life. |
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Because men species is biologically like that......
Once they got it ......they get easily tempted by other better things around there |
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Because men species is biologically like that...... Once they got it ......they get easily tempted by other better things around there 
Peter long time no see Well said! |
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Because men species is biologically like that...... Once they got it ......they get easily tempted by other better things around there Thankfully, not all men are like that. Some men are capable of finding one woman and being faithful to her. |
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why are men so confused in what they want? they say they look for a women who has this and that but when they find her they don't know how to appreciate her.. I don't get it I believe its not really being confused but it's about EXPECTATIONS, ACCEPTANCE & CONTENTMENT. It's human nature that people have expectations of the ideal woman or man in their lives. No matter how much they know each other during the dating, in the long run as relationship grow deeper , both partners begin to see the reality as it unfolds. So when imperfections come out and reality had not lived up to their expectations,every individual then longs to have more of this and more of that in life, they never get satisfied and happy with what they have . LACK OF ACCEPTANCE in each others imperfections becomes a hindrance to attain their contentment in life which leads to their confusion of what they really want in life. |
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faithful and confused are NOT mutually exclusive
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faithful and confused are NOT mutually exclusive
True, maybe that's why they're faithful, they're too confused to cheat....
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Faithful?
What's that? Men are faithful? Nice... |
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yes dear
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why are men so confused in what they want? they say they look for a women who has this and that but when they find her they don't know how to appreciate her.. I don't get it You didn't keep enough beer in your fridge. Immediate disqualification.....but don't worry. It's not you.....it's me. |
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why are men so confused in what they want? they say they look for a women who has this and that but when they find her they don't know how to appreciate her.. I don't get it Just remember! Relationships are like farting, and when you push to hard. Things can get messy really fast! |
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because we have two heads speaking for us.. at all times.. gets a little confusing if you know what I mean   
When in doubt, always listen to the one attached to your neck, it's usually bigger and definitely smarter. 
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because we have two heads speaking for us.. at all times.. gets a little confusing if you know what I mean
When in doubt, always listen to the one attached to your neck, it's usually bigger and definitely smarter.
 But it sometimes has a smaller voice.
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