I had one relationship end because I was cooking breakfast. I refused to go somewhere until after breakfast.

Is the question how often?

Answer: very frequently

You must be really bad at cooking breakfast then

I wanna hear about others I know I've done it and done to me. what petty things have happened that caused friction?

I want no drama in a relationship...or in my life..
I have no baggage and don't want to help carry someone else's either.

In your instance, she was probably looking for an excuse and this one was it.. poor though it was.. you are better off without her.

we dated maybe two weeks I was happy to show her the door.

I believe drama will destroy any relationship
When it becomes more drama than not.

I am thankful I have a pretty drama free lifestyle.


I also believe there will be drama in a relationship it will have ups and downs. When the downs become more than the ups or more painful that the ups can't carry over. Then I am done and gone.


I have had a saying for years...
If it is harder and more painful to stay
then I am leaving.

No muss no fuss

omg you mean you need food

thats just sad man , hope ya find better next time

I had one end while I was on the toilet and there was no TP. I was like....."I need tp....hello??????.....HELLLOOOOO??????" Alas she had run off with the mailman.

I admit a poorly fried egg would make me pissy....

LOL I've learned that one always check before seating yourself. they will never answer that call for help.

I'm actually a good cook I can make nice fluffy veggie omlets. I got up at 5am baked a chocolate cake brought my sweetheart chocolate cake n coffee in bed one morning mmmm the cake so good she thought she was dreaming

I'd marry a man who did that for me and I'm staunchly against marriage for the most part. But chocolate cake and coffee in bed OMG gimme!!!

lack of communication and not trying to understand creates drama.
you're wanting the world to validate you being right by offering only a very short scenario.
she left because you were cooking breakfast and refused to go somewhere.

was the place you had to go more important than cooking breakfast? was there limited time or opportunity to get there? was it an important appointment?
were you just being stubborn by refusing to lesve?
there's usually two sides to every story.
I haven't ended a relationship but I have left without my significant other when we had plans that I had to be punctual.

People who create drama just for drama sake; Oh Heck no; show them the door ASAP.

Most of the time.

it was Sunday morning nothing important I had already started breakfast.

Depends on the relationship.
Sometimes both people thrive on it.
Other people it hurts communication.
Some people are just lazy or scared of it and "drama" represents too much hassle or threatens change.
Sometimes the relationship is bad and drama is created as a subconscious means to push the problems into the spotlight sometimes as a means to sabotage it, sometimes as a cry for help.


That's subjective and pointless to tell you.
What petty things irritate me and why they irritate me will not hold the same gravitas for you.

My ex broke up with me loads of times after throwing some tantrum or other about how I didn't understand her. The one that tends to stick in my mind is when she was telling me about how it was the traffic outside her house that disturbed her energy and drove her nuts. The traffic wasn't that noisy and I didn't really get it but some women are into that mystical energy stuff. Christ, I don't know. Some women are just bothered by the slightest little thing that a man that wasn't OCD or something wouldn't care about. Anyway, I suggested trying to ignore it or just go round to the back of the house but apparently it wasn't the noise that bothered her, so I was obviously an idiot that doesn't understand women.

I don't know if it's right to talk about people that just create drama for it's own sake. People generally create drama over things that they feel strongly about and it may seem like drama about nothing to those that don't see their point of view or share their values.

I had enough drama in my last relationship to last me at least one lifetime. So I'm not interested in more of that.

Like Sitka says: if the bad outweighs the good ... time to leave!
Meaning you have to pay close attention in the beginning for red flags, cos once you're in deep, it gets more difficult and painful to leave. And Drama Flags can usually be found early on. If you keep your eyes open and don't see pink clouds only ...