Topic: Single mom.., can Barely catch a Break Let alone a Good man.
Pazzionz13's photo
Mon 09/14/15 09:00 PM
Why ?

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Mon 09/14/15 09:08 PM
hi

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 09/14/15 09:17 PM

Why ?


Could be a lot of reasons. Why do you think?

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Mon 09/14/15 09:35 PM
Single mom.., can Barely catch a Break Let alone a Good man. Why?

Why not?

You think people without kids have it really easy, catch all sorts of breaks, and are sitting around wondering "what am I going to do with all these good ones I caught?"

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Mon 09/14/15 09:55 PM
I am a single Mom I have met a few guys here . Just say hi to a few people and chat. Not all of them work out at least on line you can read profiles and get an idea as to what the person is like first.

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Tue 09/15/15 03:25 AM
Id like a glass with some cheese, please...

blah..blah..'s photo
Tue 09/15/15 03:27 AM
why what?

why don't you have time or why can't you get a good man?

Dodo_David's photo
Tue 09/15/15 04:51 AM

Why ?


So, what happened to the man that you did have?

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Tue 09/15/15 04:56 AM
david check out the profile. you question might be self answering

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Wed 09/16/15 02:42 AM
"Single mom.., can Barely catch a Break Let alone a Good man. Why?"

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I checked your profile before posting.
I am bit skeptical on newbies.

But I would like to give my take:

In today's progressive society,
I really think you have better chances and postive vibes
to get a good break and a good man if you wanted to.


Here is my concrete example:Company I am working with.

On work Schedules:

Single mothers get good breaks on work schedules
than us singles who never have kids.
(Boss is more considerate when they are absent because of their kids)

We singles who never have kids cant say no when single mothers
ask us to exchange schedule on important holidays,
we know it is important to them to spend Christmas and New year
with their kids and we who dont have kids to worry about,
like the accorded double pay on Legal Holidays.
Win-Win situation.

Single mothers get immdiate help when your kids are ill,
and you cant come to work, we singles who never have kids,
has to step up and offer to cover your shift,
because our boss is expecting us to do so.

On company outings and Parties:

Single mothers get to ride the Company Coasters with your kids
while we singles who never have kids have to find our
way on the 5 hour drive to the company outing location.
(Mostly every year end company outing)

Single mothers have a way of being on a party and ended up being
in a group of postive people exchanging their stories about their kids
and how they cope with it, being a single person.
While singles who never have kids, find it awkward and normally draws
negative attention because we lack the experience and the understanding
on how to actually react when we are surrounded of talks about babies
and parenting. We feel inadequate to give our opinion or make small talks.

Men are more comfortable with Single mothers because they know they are
tough, they raised a kid on their own,
they know the single mothers know how to react on easy-healthy bantering/flirting,
than singles who never have kids who might misinterpret what they really mean.

Single mothers are more confident with what they want from a guy because
they have been with 1 before, and now knows the difference.
Whereas Singles who never have kids have to check and re check if
it is worth all the trouble of finding a good man.

This is my long way of telling you, that mostly 90% of women
I see as postive, confident and glowing are single mothers.
From what I can see how they live their life,
they are quiet proud of being single moms.

And singles like me who never have kids can learn a lot from them.


Breaks? are up to you.So take heart.
Good man? time can only tell on both single mothers
and singles who never have kids.

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Thu 09/17/15 08:08 AM
let me take u out

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Thu 09/17/15 08:11 AM
hello im dave justing for a nice woman to go out with so please get back to me thanks so much

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Thu 09/17/15 08:11 AM
can I take u out

ALBYAK's photo
Thu 09/17/15 08:48 AM
Money or a manwhat

Kammyutd's photo
Fri 09/18/15 07:03 PM
Hey

TrystaBella85's photo
Fri 09/18/15 07:14 PM
You don't seem very happy or approachable in your profile and your headline is really negative. Maybe that's why? I know a lot of single moms who have no trouble finding men to date....