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Topic: A Question For The Men
whispertoascream's photo
Mon 10/15/07 04:20 PM
Are us women really meant to understand you guys? Cause well I have been trying and I am not sure I do.

I had this guy express an interest in me when we are alone but as soon as our friends are around he treats me like the rest. I mean screw him if that is how he wants to be, but are us women supposed to understand you?

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Mon 10/15/07 04:22 PM
We don't understand them and they do not understand us...its life

Jess642's photo
Mon 10/15/07 04:22 PM
Whisper, if he doesn't treat you the way you wish to be treated, what's to understand?

NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!!

His loss.flowerforyou

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Mon 10/15/07 04:26 PM
It's not like guys are trying to keep you from understanding lol. Men and women are just different and we all have a hard time understanding each other.

One common trait that we share (or in some cases lack) is compassion and if someone treats you like crap no matter it be a male or a female, it is your job to tell yourself that you are worth more than that and you need to get rid of that other person.


g4methanks's photo
Mon 10/15/07 04:29 PM
ashes to ashes dust to dust if he treats you like dirt let his tool rustlaugh

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Mon 10/15/07 04:30 PM
I have already provided 143 clues! What more do you people want?

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Mon 10/15/07 04:31 PM
people need 150 clues sheesh you should know that.:tongue:

Pete026's photo
Mon 10/15/07 04:31 PM
Just my 2 cents, but it could be just that he's trying to multitask (and failing!). I've found myself having to conciously think about showing affection to a girlfriend while not ignoring my friends and vice versa. It's especially hard when the girl and the friends don't know each other, you're [I'm] kinda stuck in the middle.
I don't know the full details of your situation but that was just a thought from my past experience.

Raineegirl's photo
Mon 10/15/07 04:32 PM
Anyone that treats you different in public than they do in private .... is telling you something .... you're just not hearing it ..... dump him and find someone who treats you better! :)

whispertoascream's photo
Mon 10/15/07 04:33 PM
Lex I want 144 and then i want that divided by pi subtract that from the square root of 6,419 and then I want it cubed!

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Mon 10/15/07 04:36 PM
I think you're spending too much time in that math class!!

((((((((((WHISPER))))))))))

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

ninhd's photo
Mon 10/15/07 04:37 PM
"Lex I want 144 and then i want that divided by pi subtract that from the square root of 6,419 and then I want it cubed!"

It'll be like 9/11 times 6973

coryM18's photo
Mon 10/15/07 04:39 PM
if he's treating you like that around his friends, then that means he's either embarrased to be with you or he just started dating you because you look good, and he;s trying to impress his friends

joshyfox's photo
Mon 10/15/07 04:40 PM
It's simple, nobody really understands anybody, gender has nothing to do with it. We all have our own personalities and the sooner we stop generalizing thinking all women act like this ore all men think like this, the better.

joshyfox's photo
Mon 10/15/07 04:40 PM
It's simple, nobody really understands anybody, gender has nothing to do with it. We all have our own personalities and the sooner we stop generalizing thinking all women act like this ore all men think like this, the better.

joshyfox's photo
Mon 10/15/07 04:40 PM
Oops Double post

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Mon 10/15/07 04:41 PM
whispertoascream,

Two likely possiblities:

1) He's shy or shy about how he feels about you.
2) He is hoping to get lucky.

whispertoascream's photo
Mon 10/15/07 04:42 PM
-514,235.584

Heh, sorry lex had to answer my own math problem.


And thank you guys for for your responses.

whispertoascream's photo
Mon 10/15/07 04:43 PM
Hmm dating me because I look good. Now there is a reason i can deal with. Not except but hey it still makes a girl feel good...lol.

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Mon 10/15/07 09:27 PM
when it is the right one, you will click and not question anything. Yet you will accept and love every moment of it. I know that doesn't help, but when that time comes it will make sense.

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