Topic: WANTED...The American Housewife...! | |
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A Woman asked me recently what I wanted in a Wife...?
I told her, she would have to look like beyonce and cook like aunt bee. She said...what? I then explained to her I want a beautiful house wife...she said such a thing does,nt exist anymore...is this true...? |
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I don't look like beyonce... but I cook like Aunt Bee.. 1 out of 2 isn't
to bad *cheeky grin* |
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they exist but they aren't the norm anymore.
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She said that woman consider staying home and taking care of a man to be
disgraceful. |
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Thats so untrue, I don't look like "B" but I do think I look good and
can cook like Aunt Bee, also hold down my career |
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was up Ontario
so what you think? you can have your cake and eat it 2? HUH? |
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you'll get out what you put in... many women today refuse to be the
traditional years-ago house wife b/c men some men have stopped being the tradtional faithful-take-care-of-home husband. you cant have one w/o the other. I hear Drama-- many women these days can hold their own, but we want the job matched in return |
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But would you give up your career to stay home and take care of your
husband like June Cleever, and that bunch...are do you consider working and having your own money more important. |
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I wudnt want my man to struggle. Back in the day men had to work 12 hr,
or long day shifts juus to support the home. I dont want my man hustlin n breakin his bak if i can contribute too, but i know family's important as well. thats somethin we'd hav to discuss, no every two people are the same |
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O, if I find a man like the Clever days I would be that housewife that
he wants as long as he take care of business |
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That type of man is rare
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agree with monique 100%
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it's not disgraceful but roles in america have changed greatly. alot of
people don't understand that alot of women did not do it because they were repressed. there are certain core values that go into a loving relationship and raising a good strong family that don't exist too much in the modern american society, shit if the woman don't want to stay home i will lol. |
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Fair Enought, but what if it was,nt a struggle...you would be aunt
bee...? |
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It goes both ways baby.
are you willing to give up your single and wonderfull life just to be with your wife only? HUH? |
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I feel you, King! My dad was the same way... he was like, hell I'll stay
home n raise the kids if she wanna go work! lol Of course he was sayin that lukin bak... but times have changed now. U cant expect one thing from old days to remain the same and other things change |
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i know where you are coming from monique but the thing is the men did
that as a sacrifice for their families. they broke their backs and they knew that mom was at home taking care of things on that end. alot of people don't agree with me but that was a mutual relationship in alot of families. alot of people have this crazy idea that just because mom stayed home that it was because dad was a jealous controlling sob and it wasn't always true. |
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hey ?"ONT" they are few and far between trust th smurff...
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HELL NO, don't ever trust a stoned smurf lol
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LOL
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