In the past I've always been very shy and skeptical, if not downright cinical, of men. I always had to take it slow and open up slowly, little by little. Comfort and trust was my biggest problems. But I'm in this relationship now that's so different. There was no awkward silences or anything. We just click.

I prefer taking it slow and build a foundation for the realtionship to grow.

I prefer to take it slow but sometimes you just meet that person who makes you go "WOW"

right now i am probably falling too fast for the girl i'm dating. I like her a lot, but I think she wants to take it slow, I'm trying to take it slow, but she is all i can think about. Never had this feeling before.

Steven, you are in LIKE. Just roll with it and enjoy the ride.

M

I will, thanks

This is exactly me... I have a tendancy to fall headfirst into relationships. When I first meet someone I like the first few weeks are a mad rush of thoughts and emotions, then once that wears out a little I start to notice the things that I was over-looking before. By that point they are entangled in my web and I have to be the one who cuts them loose. The odd thing is that is the exact opposite of how I am with everything else. I normally over-think and over-analyze things.

It's not really that great of a way to start a relationship, so lately I've been trying to slow my own libido down and take a hard look before I take that step. I can't say that I've been that successful, but at least now I'm making the effort to examine myself and do a little more thinking when it comes to the people I date.