Is saying Hi I think you're cute, would you want to get coffee sometime all that's needed?

by noticing more than her beauty.
by learning what she's about
by not treating her like an object

If she's receptive a nice smile is all it takes. If she's not interested, she's not interested.

Sometimes and yet it is a bit rare for me to have some guy come up and ask me that let alone get called cute..lol

The way to approach a girl any girl if she is not so pretty or drop dead gorgeous, is the same way.
The same way you would anyone else, take a moment to read her body language, take time to really talk to her and not her chest or butt or anywhere in between except the eyes..

Look into her eyes and allow her to see you are interested in more than a one night stand even if that is all you are interested in.

I personalty do not believe all it takes is a smile ... I smile and sometimes joke with strangers ...does not mean... I want anything more from them ...

Well I'm hopeless lol, never approached a girl in my life.

op just ask if they would like to get together sometime ... so what if they say sorry or whatever they may just say sure ... never be intimidated by someone... its really ok if they say no ... and just gives u experience for the next time ... becouse how will you know if u do not ask ... right ... oh and keep your mouth closed after asking no drooling allowed on the first meet lmao

Only with someone from school or you work with, if they've seen you around before, they're comfortable to your presence and it's normal.

I wouldn't recommend walking up to a complete stranger who's never seen you before and asking that.

Some level of comfort in your presence needs to be established.

Walking up to a woman and saying "Hi, I think you're cute, would you want to get coffee sometime?" is little different than walking up and asking "hey pretty lady, can you spare a dollar?"
It's just "I pay you a compliment, now you owe me something, I want a date/dollar."


Best thing to do is engage in a fun conversation that makes getting coffee sometime a necessity to continuing the positive and enjoyable conversation, it gives the meeting or date a purpose greater than your desire to capture cuteness for your enjoyment.

Unless they have a standard trained protocol (like f all men, they just want one thing) strangers will take their cues on how to react to you from you. If you're jittery and nervous, they'll think something is wrong with you. If you're honestly happy, gregarious, and jovial, they eventually will be too.


And the very best thing to do is hang out in a grocery store parking lot and when a woman, all alone, comes out with a full basket of groceries and parks it behind her car, you jump out with your junk hanging out of your pants and say "I'll help you unload that, if you help me unload this."
Women like old fashioned real men like that."

I somehow, just know that last one wouldn't go over well lol

You all make it sound so easy

approach a pretty girl like a pretty guy: with your mind, not with your D...umdeedumm.
Talk to the person, not her booty.

So its no different than for a male, a friend, a neighbor...

Non threateningly is usually wise.

The main thing to challenge oneself on, is the idea that "approaching" a pretty person should be done any differently than approaching a non-pretty one.

Don't be nervous. Fear smells worse than bad BO.

Look her in the eye and give her the biggest smile you can muster. Don't talk about her looks, let your smile do that. Talk to her as a person. Show interest and invite her to coffee or whatever. Don't be vague. Name a time.

Are we talking about a stranger or someone you already know?

You should approach a pretty lady the same way you approach a non pretty lady its the same chemistry, her reply depends on her mood and what she is going through at that moment... Study her body language and the expression she got on her face well before you approach her.. Goodluck

why approach a pretty girl? wait till you see one that's so beautiful on the inside she blows you away. unless you are trophy hunting. other than that go to OZ get courage. they are approachable or not. on average you will get shot down 19 out of 20. its the 1 out of 20 you want.

Google it there are training classes for guys that are shy. you learn in steps. start by just asking trivial things like do you know what time it is. work your way up.

As the saying goes, you never get a 2nd chance to make a first impression.

Try dropping to the floor and show her how many press ups you can do.

Should work a treat

Lol well I can't even talk to guys I don't know, it's a miracle I have friends. I went through all of college without talking to anyone in my classes lol

I have a 19 year old girl I'll send u her Skype are u brave enough to Skype her?