What I want ... a man who's able and ready to make a commitment. Mature, worked through his chit and previous relationship, but not old yet, neither physically, nor mentally.

I often get the impression that most men don't work through their breakups, but instead they shut down, fear a new commitment, instead get involved in half-hearted relationships that don't work out, making them shut down even more. They become bitter and develop negative views of the other gender. Or they give up and get depressed or they become players. Which in the end usually doesn't make them happy either.
Then by the time they're 65 they see the light and start looking for a woman in her 40s. As if she's waiting and interested in a man that much older?

Of late I'm beginning to think that maybe a younger man wouldn't be half bad. Not because I need an ego boost, but because they still have more spring in 'em. They don't have the baggage men in their 40's seem to have.

I still think that for a woman in her 40s finding a partner is really difficult. Not because she's difficult, but because of the phase most men that age seem to go through.
And this is not gender bashing, but observations I've made.

Everyone does.
Whether they admit it or not verbally,
No matter how jaded, man or woman -
wants meaningful relationship
with someone special.



So you have given someone THAT energy.
But it was not being reciprocated.



There it is again, you want it to be reciprocated.
If you are in the same page with the woman and your feelings
are reciprocated, then there should be no mind games or manipulation.
To suggest that there is a mind game- then one of you is not convince of each other's worth.
To suggest that there is a manipulation - then one of you is not in love with his/her partner.

Mind. Body. Soul.??
You should have clicked and jived with just mind and body.
How much more if souls are involve.



Sir. You are putting yourself to be taken for granted.
It doesn't matter how hard you love.
What matters is if that love is reciprocated.
If your partner values you as much as you value her.
If she really knows your worth-
she will never even think of seeking outside for
satisfaction. You are more than enough.
The real question is does she feel the same way about you?




I can only speak for myself.
Each individual is different.

I want someone who believes in goodness.
I want someone who can lead me.
I want someone who may not matter to other people
but when we are together we matter.
I want someone who is best when I am with him.
I want someone who can make me a better person when
I am with him.

Now that is what I want.
What I need is:

Good decision maker
Good judge of character.
Consistent.

I want a man that when I say my car is going vroom clumka clunka what does that mean? knows what the hell that means and fixes it for me or takes it in to be fixed.

I want a man that watches me quietly as I go about house folding this and putting away that and singing along to radio and every once in awhile he breathes deep and releases it and just smiles as he goes about what he is doing.

I want a man that says " babe let me do the driving" and I am comfortable enough with him to let him do it because I know that he knows the way and that he is a safe driver

I want a man that understands that if my kids need me or my son is sick our plans may need to be put on hold and the reason he 'gets' that is because he is a dad and would expect the same consideration from me

I want a man that gets me and when we stop somewhere to eat knows that the reason I ask him what he is ordering is because I don't want to order the same thing and that sometimes I might want to share so that we can try two things on menu we do not usually make at home

I want a man that can sit next to me with his arm flopped behind me completely relaxed and talk about anything with me..what his kid had to say on phone, what his boss is like, his coworkers, how big the fish was he almost caught

I want a man that chooses to spend his time with me, walks beside me, stands next to me because he truly values my input, my company and my time

We jst set standards dt r jst 2 unrealistic mst tyms bt al i knw is dt we jst want 2 b luved n bein luved cums wit alt of thngs dt mst important being attention.we crave 4 validation nt perfection,jst affection.rlshps r a beautiful thng,so is marriage,its ppl who complicate nd make it undesirable.i jst want a guy who is ambitious,a gud provider b0th materialistic n emotionali.lets grow 2geda n learn 4rm each ada,respect 1 anada

I'm impressed by your phonetic writing skills! Very clever!

I want to read a profile that IS truly the truth...not what they think we want to hear.

nice that s something mature :) i liked it

wrong kinda chicks then lol its shoes

not every woman seeks money if we all go by that then all guys just want sex you are sterotyping the ladies

yepper that may be what I want but guess what I got this morning
instead of a good morning beautiful how was your night I got some dipwad with no shirt on that lives in my town giving me his phone number on first message and calling me baby and telling me to swing on down to where he is working

I want....
What do i want again?

race cars are a lot of fun. i have had some. but it will NOT rub your back at 1:00 am.

I want a bra that doesn't start killing me in the middle of the day. That's what I want...