serious question you are having a relationship with your best friend most beautiful person you have ever seen and its an open relationship. can you handle it and how?

I couldn't handle it.
An open relationship is an unsafe and insecure relationship.
If there are no real boundaries circumscribing the relationship there's no real point to the relationship.

Little different than making sure the barn doors are always open because you're afraid of being trapped if there's a fire.
Makes escape, theft, or predation of anything inside easier, and defeats the purpose of it.

I've thought a lot about this. no relationship is completely safe, if there's strict limits n boundaries any mistakes will lead to failure.

that wouldn't be for me

if its the most beautiful person ,, why would I desire anyone else?


but if its not REQUITED(the feelings that is) I would have to pass, it would hurt to much to give somethign so exclusively out of sheer desire to be exclusive and know that the other person didnt consider it as special

you asked me a question I posted a thread with more details there were explosions gun fire smoke debris the thread got locked to save lives. :)

I've had some open relationships, which have worked well. There most certainly were agreed upon boundaries. Open relationships can work in several situations. Perhaps you're not suited for or desiring of a monogamous relationship - not everyone is. Or maybe you have a kink or fetish that can't be satisfied in your primary relationship. Maybe you just like sexual variety occasionally. It could even be that your existing relationships aren't expected to be permanent or serious, so you agree to dating others.

I can do either open/poly or serious monogamous relationships - but the latter requires a highly compatible partner.

I would not be in a relationship like this.

I wouldnt do it... but hey, whatever trips your trigger. Just watch out for some other dudes peter tracks when you lay down on her bed.

actually this case there's only one man anyone else involved would be female.

that how is it open? if there are just the two of you

apparently ...you would be only guy screwing her but she could play with other women

very insightful :)

Ahhh....so you believe in this 'open' relationship, youre the only guy she's banging.

*snickers*

... with the greater potential of STDs as a bonus.

him: babe I am thinking we need an open relationship. You are really close friends with what's her name...the blond you work with right? soooo how about we open this up and invite her in?
Her: you mean Bambi the new secretary? you wanna invite her into the bedroom...well.....I dunno...I guess that would be alright...



but then let's also invite your golfing buddy Rod in..ya know the one who is home for summer from college and is all tan and muscled..and..

him: hey...dat sheet ain't funny

Spot on

yes the guy can also date there's no threesome if they r both meeting other people its open

there is a thing called safe sex