Well, you know ... I think that if you don't have hangups causing you to be overly jealous/scared etc, and you do get a very strong intuitive knowing that something is seriously off ... you mostly got good reason to be suspicious.
And if you are right, the other is not likely to own up about it, cos they know they've done something they weren't supposed to have done.
How it will affect the relationship and love for one another after either one has effed up... depends on the state of the relationship and what exactly has happened, why and how often.

In my case, my ex is a narcissist and they are pathological manipulators and liars. No way would he have admitted to anything, he'd just twist and turn things around.
So in that relationship the trust and honesty etc had gone out the window because of all the chit he did.
I didn't even really bother checking on him anymore. It would only upset me, resulting in me getting an ulcer or a heart attack, lol, and he'd go on anyways. It was time to get out. And I did.

Next relationship, if ever I find myself a partner again, I think (hope) I will pay heed to my intuition sooner instead of ignoring it because he tells me I'm wrong.

Snoop/snooped means To pry into the private affairs of others

sorry if we are off topic a bit earlier:)




My Take:

If she snooped..it means she care in a way.
If you have nothing to hide, why worry?
If it's a trust issue and it is important to you and your relationship
with her, then tell her directly.
Maybe her snooping at you, makes her understand you more or love you more.
Caution is not just necessary, it is a necessity, especially if it is the heart that is at stake..especially if you meet her on an online dating site.

just sayin

I don't really agree with the snooping as a caring attitude. Snooping is an act of having doubts against your partner, so it's not in anyway near to caring. Once snooping starts, one might get addicted to it.. And if one starts snooping on his/her partner it then implies that the relationship is a big mess #JustSaying :)

I like your take on snooping haha..cool

so I rechecked the OP:Please be sincere with your answers. Have you ever snooped on your partner? If yes/no give your reasons.
Yikes! its for people with partners haha..I should not be on this thread then..lol



My take on the OP:

If your partner wants to snoop on you,
even when you are already in a relationship,
then I agree something is already off.
Your partner have doubts.
Would you give up on your partner because he/she has doubts?
Why not reassure him/her and work on your trust with each other.

Allow your partner at least once to snoop on you.
Then talk about it, and how important trust is to
you and in a relationship.

Trust is to be earned.
It is too expensive a commodity to be freely given.
Especially on a dating website.