Topic: Should the guy always make the first move?
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Mon 08/17/15 11:04 AM
Should the guy always make
the first move?
Not all the time. Sometimes, this is nice:


http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VGtLS0SBUJ0&itct=CDAQpDAYAyITCKrilr3ZsMcCFVWPTgodcH8LjlIXYW50ZWxvcGUgcnVucyBpbnRvIHRyZWU%3D&client=mv-google&gl=US&hl=en

Annierooroo's photo
Mon 08/17/15 06:20 PM
I am old fashion I would rather wait for him to make the move.

If he is a friend then I would suggest doing something but never with someone I like like.



chronicliar75's photo
Mon 08/17/15 11:25 PM


some women prefer the male to be the initiator as they prefer being the passive person but of course they do in fact choose from among the males who are assertive but do not necessarily get selected by males they would choose so there is a price paid in being only receptive and not active in mate selection. Some males are comfortable in being chosen while others may feel emasculated and threatened. The most significant aspect is for each to meet sufficient partners so that a match can occur but this requires each to face the feelings of rejection when meeting others. Strangely both males and females want to be selected but do not wish to experience the necessary rejection that is paid to actually meet others. these are social skills and are easily learned with a counselor but require a modicum of courage to admit and then act upon to facilitate needed assertiveness skills..


Wow!:) :thumbsup:
Well said sir...

PAULYMAC69's photo
Wed 08/19/15 06:07 AM

I am not shy when it comes to approaching men :banana: :banana: tongue2
That Is Why I~WE REALLY LIKE YOU love Please dont lose that your hard to find! and iv been looking! a dime in a dozenblushing and mayb u cud pass it on to other women:wink: Do you proberly know what you want in a guy' I wish i could be like you! Not attending enough partys,intimidating beautiful girls do it to meembarassed , fear of regection ahhh means im finding it Hard to get there:cry: 'what i want is to be free to approach, but all girls seem to be a bit different' almost alien to me' with dont talk to me written all over them or im not tall so this autoregect mode is on for me! im very confident my sisters told me "to think more highly of myself" and im looking in the wrong places" obviously' so il keep trying hay flowers looking for women like U Blondey to talk too ill try making that first move more too, not shy very cool..blushing smitten

1onlyaname's photo
Wed 08/19/15 07:52 PM
the first move is usually a smile

Annierooroo's photo
Wed 08/19/15 07:58 PM

the first move is usually a smile


That doesn't mean they like like that person
It could be a hi or acknowledgement

sybariticguy's photo
Wed 08/19/15 08:10 PM

Yes

That's why I always have my date kit at the ready

1. night vision goggles
2. rope
3. duct tape
4. munchies (could be a long stake out)
5. black hood
6. tranquilizers

Now I'm ready to make my move

bigsmile

hannibal wannabe lol

1onlyaname's photo
Wed 08/19/15 08:32 PM
when a woman smiles men just accept it as a smile when man smiles women always question why. I always use a smile to flirt.

1onlyaname's photo
Wed 08/19/15 08:39 PM
unless she smiles and touches her hair :)

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Wed 08/19/15 08:57 PM

when a woman smiles men just accept it as a smile when man smiles women always question why. I always use a smile to flirt.


Some men can have creepy smiles, tho...j/s...

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Wed 08/19/15 09:03 PM

unless she smiles and touches her hair :)


I was practicing for a shampoo commercial...hair-flip*

1onlyaname's photo
Wed 08/19/15 09:08 PM
in ur 30s ur fun let's flirt :) lol

Annierooroo's photo
Wed 08/19/15 09:11 PM
NTS: remember the hair flip

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Wed 08/19/15 09:28 PM
careful with the tangles :laughing: :angel:

use a separate conditioner :wink:

2bhappy4ever's photo
Wed 08/19/15 09:29 PM
First move? knight to bishop 4?

Annierooroo's photo
Wed 08/19/15 09:36 PM
Thanks
Will remember that

Oh my hair
Flick yes perfect
:laughing:

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Wed 08/19/15 09:38 PM

in ur 30s ur fun let's flirt :) lol


is that smile a leer???surprised noway laugh laugh laugh

2bhappy4ever's photo
Wed 08/19/15 09:46 PM

NTS: remember the hair flip


Yeah I remember the Hair Flip. In the 80's the girls had big hair that they could really work!

Annierooroo's photo
Wed 08/19/15 10:02 PM
Lol flick and smile

What about the the eye lashes
Do they still. Work?

80s? Where have you been?
biggrin

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Wed 08/19/15 10:32 PM
the hair flip works with guys as well...rofl