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Topic: what excuses
TMommy's photo
Sat 08/15/15 05:36 AM


Woah now back the horse up..


it's all about "getting mine" ???


huh...now I gotta re-think this
means I was pretty damn nice those months
I was out to here preggers huh


if this is to personal for you, please don't answer.

but even when your were not far off your delivery date?
are you asking me if I had sex during my pregnancy Debbie?
I was throwing up first trimester but by second/third trimester I was content and nesting and feeling pretty happy and amorous if he was

but towards the end of 8th month I just felt like a beached whale
he would paint my toe nails for me
I would ...umm do things nice for him in return since we were not having intercourse at that point

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Sat 08/15/15 05:39 AM
Edited by debbie1980 on Sat 08/15/15 05:42 AM



Woah now back the horse up..


it's all about "getting mine" ???


huh...now I gotta re-think this
means I was pretty damn nice those months
I was out to here preggers huh


if this is to personal for you, please don't answer.

but even when your were not far off your delivery date?
are you asking me if I had sex during my pregnancy Debbie?
I was throwing up first trimester but by second/third trimester I was content and nesting and feeling pretty happy and amorous if he was

but towards the end of 8th month I just felt like a beached whale
he would paint my toe nails for me
I would ...umm do things nice for him in return since we were not having intercourse at that point


I just meant in the very later stages. because I know some women who stuggled just to walk, but they were short women.

awwww that's sweet.

they advise couples to have sex if there over due because it can bring on labor, im sure you know that, but sometimes I think how is that possible, she can barley move.

NorCalSwe's photo
Sat 08/15/15 08:33 AM
Now that is nice he painted her toe nails because she couldn't, and she sewed buttons on his shirts and darned his socks....

What?

You choose whatever picture you want, I'm choosing this one. bigsmile

livingsingle15's photo
Sun 08/16/15 05:45 AM
I heard it all from my ex. Yeast infection acting up, period, hives, tired, need to take a shower first, just took a shower (yes one right after the other). Understand hearing a few times here and there, but when it went on for 7 months straight, something wasn't right.

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Sun 08/16/15 05:47 AM

I heard it all from my ex. Yeast infection acting up, period, hives, tired, need to take a shower first, just took a shower (yes one right after the other). Understand hearing a few times here and there, but when it went on for 7 months straight, something wasn't right.


if its all the time or the majority then yes clearly something isn't right. flowerforyou

TyphoonMk1b's photo
Sun 08/16/15 02:40 PM

number 1, what excuses have you made to get out of sex in a relationship/marriage etc?
number 2, the longer you were together did the excuses come more often and were the excuses different than in the earlier days.



1)
Her Bipolar disorder meant that she could go from happy to sad within minutes.
My sex sessions, i like it to last hours. So yea, that was a practical issue.

2)yes - i withdrew to the room with the couch and the PC. Yes, the list of reasons why i did not want sex or intimacy got longer and longer.


3)(optional)
The sex was what got us together.
The lack of sex due to [reasons] was what split us up.
= Sex, intimacy, skin on skin, cuddling matters.
--> No intimacy, no relationship. Brutal.

SitkaRains's photo
Sun 08/16/15 02:45 PM
Dang I was never smart enough to make up an excuse..
If I wasn't in the mood. which was really rare.
I would say can I take a raincheck..

Sexual intimacy is something I actually enjoy with my partner from the beginning to the end.

TMOM...You nailed my pregnancies to a t...laugh
First tri I was too busy being sick to even think about it...

Last month I was one of those "short women" that could barely waddle let alone think about sex...:laughing:

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