Topic: would you marry again? why or why not?
rachelnicole22's photo
Sat 08/08/15 01:17 AM

sure, I personally don't see myself getting married again (at least with the current laws in place in the U.S)

For me it is not because im scarred, scared, emotionally unavailable, or afraid of commitment.

it's because I no longer respect marriage in and of itself

It's just that marriage used to be honored by society as a whole, but we've allowed marriages to become "at-will" contracts with the government, not with each other, but the government.

Even the people in marriages don't respect them anymore (look at all the celebrities cheating on their spouse)

but worse than that other people don't have respect for those who are married (Ashley Madison anyone)

some other countries actually allow you to go after the individual your significant other cheated on you with for damages....imagine that..making someone think that if "they" are married maybe I should stay away. For a single guy in the U.S it makes no difference to him whether or not the person he is talking to is married. In my opinion it should matter, because it should be able to affect him.

I think the culture here of marry and divorce at will is sickening on every level and damaging to society as a whole.

I don't think it should be a completely unbreakable contract, but I do believe it should only be invalidated for very few exceptions.

I also don't believe it should be a vehicle for personal gain(gold-diggers) I think if the laws changed and either party broke the agreement, then they leave and go separate ways, and with children involved BOTH parents have to pay child support until they are 18, both have to contribute a certain percentage of their respective income into a child account, that both have limited access to, and can use for the children only.

but unfortunately marriage isn't respected on this level in this country so personally I choose not to partake in a process that has been so corrupted over time that it is now unrecognizable as what it once represented


Rock's photo
Sat 08/08/15 04:38 AM
Would I get married again?

Not just no, but Hell no!


Why?
Better dead, than wed.

Annierooroo's photo
Sat 08/08/15 09:03 AM
Maybe
If hes cute
Has a car with full car licence
Not living with mummy
Doesn't sleep with his dog
No prickles on his face
No holes in his pockets or have big pockets

no photo
Sat 08/08/15 09:04 AM
No prickles on his face. Clean shaven man. :thumbsup:

Annierooroo's photo
Sat 08/08/15 09:25 AM
Add fresh breath
That's a must

no photo
Sat 08/08/15 09:51 AM
good

Justfun_1's photo
Sat 08/08/15 11:00 AM
I have never been married,but i'm not going to say it won't happen. Being in love can make us do the strangest of things :smile:

Zohainuddin's photo
Sat 08/08/15 12:09 PM
Hi

Zohainuddin's photo
Sat 08/08/15 12:09 PM
Any girl here

Zohainuddin's photo
Sat 08/08/15 12:10 PM
Hi

TMommy's photo
Sat 08/08/15 06:50 PM
hey darling this is a thread discussing whether or not divorced folks want to get married again



feel free to post a hello in the introduction area for new people happy

Roadrider106's photo
Sat 08/08/15 07:49 PM
No I wouldn't get married again, live together maybe? But not likely. I have become accustomed to living alone with my 2 little pugs. Like Tmommy said, its difficult to give that independence. She would have to be VERY self sufficient, independent, and able to care for herself, have her own place, car, employed etc. I don't want to be involved in a dependent type relationship.

no photo
Sat 08/08/15 08:21 PM
I would get married again someday, but not anytime soon. I was married late in life and for short period of time. I don't want to repeat a loveless marriage.

Annierooroo's photo
Sat 08/08/15 09:38 PM
I agree with you Cat
Would not marry unless there is love from both.
I hated the loveless marriage.

no photo
Sat 08/08/15 09:47 PM
I'm a fool for love. That's why I am still waiting and waiting and waiting...

Annierooroo's photo
Sat 08/08/15 10:37 PM
I will sit with you until our Romeos come for us. Iam

aryanchoudharythefun's photo
Sat 08/08/15 11:43 PM
No

Karochewi's photo
Sun 08/09/15 01:03 AM
I ll get married when ever I found my dream women, to share all my lov and spend the rest of my life with, and to be stable. It is good to get married with the right person. I encourage every one to find the right person to make life more meaningful

mikeyspace4691's photo
Sun 08/09/15 01:13 AM
I'm quite sure I don't have enough material goods built up to survive another divorce.. I'm working hard at it though, so ladies please keep me in mind..tongue2

no photo
Sun 08/09/15 01:44 AM
All cleaned out, huh? laugh laugh laugh