sure dont seem like it

humm what does that mean lol?

Lady I'll have to disagree with the "most" part of your comment as I've
been disagreed with about how the majority of women don't really want
the nice guy. I for one am flat out sick of being told I AM the nicest
guy she (insert any of the women I've dated) ever met but she's just met
someone who "excites" her more only to find out he's a drunk or addict,
slaps her around, talks down to her, cheats on her etc. That's a hell of
a lot of excitement I think I'd do without in my life were I a woman!
I'm sorry but I would be good to the woman in my life end of story, if
that makes me a nice guy but undesirable then her head is more messed up
than I want to deal with.

Hi Everybody!
It's that challege that people want what they can't have!!

If the guy is nice & respectful, considerate of your feelings & tenative
to your needs. calls when he says he will, shows up when he says he
will! then it's no challege for most girls..

They've already won him over so it's on to the next challege..

The problem that I've had with nice guys is not staying nice..
but that goes both ways, I know I don't always stay "nice" I can turn
into a cranky monster when somebody starts smothering me with
"kindness" so they think, It's that feeling of not being able to breath
on my own. or do any thing without them that starts getting to me...
When people start saying "I love you" early into a relationship you
should watch for the other warning signs of codependency type of
personalities.
I think I've said enough for my first post on here i already sound
like A nut!!

I, for one, like nice guys. Sure I was attracted to the bad boy type
when I was younger, its the excitement of going against the grain. But
since I have grown older and hopefully wiser, I see people for much
more. I have recently met a man, a really nice guy, on another site, who
makes me laugh, keeps me interested, who is not a door mat or a sap. I
really like this guy and do not want to mess up a chance at happiness if
I can help it at all. I like to think that I have matured above the
shallow self-absorbed person I was in my 20's. I am so sick of fickle,
insecure men who think they are all that and a big bag of chips because
they consider themselves bad boys, I have learned (the hard way) that
you take each day as it comes and make the most of it, and believe me
nice guys ( guys who know how to treat a woman with respect and
sensitivity, honesty and integrity) make each day a gift.

How, appropiate...!

i need a nice guy

I think most women really dont know what they want lol!
Like anyone else, they have the right to change thier minds ay any time.
Women just excersize that right more often than we do lol!

im a nice guy but you know sometimes the nice guys get takin advantage
of because hes nice and then he gets all screwed up
cause he doesnt want to be used again .....i got used once didnt like it
so im lot more cautios now but im still nice i just treat people how i
want to be treated

I cannot speak for the rest of them women in the world all I can speak
for is myself,ys I am attracted to "nice" guys, I have a lifetime of bad
expereinces with the bad boys and frankly I am oh so tired of their suck
assed attitudes and outlook on life. I will treat any man as I desire to
be treated, with kindness, compassion, honesty, understanding and simple
respect. If it is not given to me then they will be treated in the
manner they treat me.Like most people in this world I have baggage and
issues, but tha doesn't mean I bring them into any relationship, I know
the difference between the nice guy and the creeps who treated me like
shit.

yo wanna know if hes a nice guy ask what he thinks of his mother
its usaully a good sign what he thinks of women in general cause most of
what guys learn about women come from there relationship with theyre mom

I think every woman wants a nice guy she can turn into "her"
BAD BOY. Every one wants a nice guy whos a little but TIGER.