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Topic: Interracial Dating
writerinme_2015's photo
Tue 08/04/15 06:52 AM
In 2015 why does it appear that we haven't progressed beyond the 1930. Does skin tone really matter? If so...why?

williamwill1's photo
Tue 08/04/15 07:06 AM
for me we r all the same

gramsey1953's photo
Tue 08/04/15 07:06 AM
For me it's not coloration but location. All the beautiful women of color I see would be long distance relationships.

no photo
Tue 08/04/15 07:14 AM
It's a matter of PERSONAL PREFERENCE. I like and l am excited by attractive WHITE MEN ONLY.

jacktrades's photo
Tue 08/04/15 07:20 AM
Edited by jacktrades on Tue 08/04/15 07:21 AM
I think we have evolved, and people are starting to recognize that life and relationships are about finding the right mate. I agree there might be cultural differences but that just adds another ingredient to the stew.Women are beautiful in all shapes, sizes, and colors.flowerforyou

JudyP94566's photo
Tue 08/04/15 07:37 AM
I agree with IamwhoIam...Its not about color, its about Personal Preference. Me personally, I was raped by a black man when I was 13, so it appalls me at the thought of a black man touching me in that way. I have plenty of black friends male and female, but I could never ever date a back person.

no photo
Tue 08/04/15 07:56 AM
Edited by SassyEuro2 on Tue 08/04/15 08:31 AM

In 2015 why does it appear that we haven't progressed beyond the 1930. Does skin tone really matter? If so...why?

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Haven't progressed beyond the 1930? ... Is this a joke ?

Either a guy is into you or he isn't.
Everyone has there sexual preferences, just like cultural & religious preferences.

Not getting what you want, does not mean something is wrong with other people or races. It means you should pray for acceptance.

Cook Co Illinois. 58.6% White & the middle class male earns over $47,000.
Should I look up how many are White Jewish Men ?
Nah... your a writer, you can research it .



isaac_dede's photo
Tue 08/04/15 08:30 AM
Edited by isaac_dede on Tue 08/04/15 08:32 AM
I think we've been here before todo.:looks around: yep definitely been here before todo.

Ok, for me this topic is the same as "guys don't like single mothers" some girl gets turned down by a guy and blames it in something else.

example:

Single mom "I can't get a date, guys just don't want me because I have a kid sniffle sniffle"

yeah thats it...im sure it has nothing to do with the fact that they let themselves go, gained 50lbs, stopped wearing makeup, and no longer do their hair. Most single moms I see complaining are the same ones that probably couldn't get a date even if they didn't have kids.


now on topic, someone gets rejected and they blame it on the color of their skin, they could have a nose that could be mistaken as a sword, but no that couldn't be it..it has to be their skin color, their teeth could be so yellow that traffic slows when they smile..but no that couldn't be the reason, it has to be their skin color, they could have the personality of a jellyfish, but no that couldn't be it..it has to be their skin color.

Honestly women, most often if a guy rejects you it isn't because of this made up reason or that one, it's simply he's not into, and probably still wouldn't be whether or not you have kids, whether or not your black white, brown or otherwise, it wouldn't matter he still wouldn't be into you


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Tue 08/04/15 09:51 AM

I agree with IamwhoIam...Its not about color, its about Personal Preference. Me personally, I was raped by a black man when I was 13, so it appalls me at the thought of a black man touching me in that way. I have plenty of black friends male and female, but I could never ever date a back person.


I agree its personal preference and my preference is white men.

sorry what happened to you. ((hugs))flowerforyou

no photo
Tue 08/04/15 10:10 AM
Down here in Florida I don't think it matters. You see Black/white relationships all of the time. You see Hispanic/Black or Hispanic/white all of the time. Heck guys even date guys and girls even date girls. Would I date a guy, heck no. Does that make me homophobic? I don't think so, just not my preference. I hope that my preferences can be respected. You may want to expand your search to different synagogues if you are looking for a nice Jewish man. That may be more productive than blaming others.

JudyP94566's photo
Tue 08/04/15 01:11 PM
Thanks.

no photo
Tue 08/04/15 02:04 PM
And if you happen to be creamy white, you go right to the top of the white guy list.

Creamy is very good to be ;)

Dodo_David's photo
Tue 08/04/15 05:36 PM

In 2015 why does it appear that we haven't progressed beyond the 1930. Does skin tone really matter? If so...why?


Perhaps you could ask that question to all of the black women who won't date a man if he is white.

no photo
Tue 08/04/15 07:02 PM
I love interracial dating ..

2469nascar's photo
Tue 08/04/15 07:40 PM


In 2015 why does it appear that we haven't progressed beyond the 1930. Does skin tone really matter? If so...why?


Perhaps you could ask that question to all of the black women who won't date a man if he is white.
^^^^^^^^^^that^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

nd333's photo
Tue 08/04/15 10:35 PM
Personally, I love the idea of being in an interracial relationship, but that's just me.

msharmony's photo
Tue 08/04/15 10:40 PM

I think we've been here before todo.:looks around: yep definitely been here before todo.

Ok, for me this topic is the same as "guys don't like single mothers" some girl gets turned down by a guy and blames it in something else.

example:

Single mom "I can't get a date, guys just don't want me because I have a kid sniffle sniffle"

yeah thats it...im sure it has nothing to do with the fact that they let themselves go, gained 50lbs, stopped wearing makeup, and no longer do their hair. Most single moms I see complaining are the same ones that probably couldn't get a date even if they didn't have kids.


now on topic, someone gets rejected and they blame it on the color of their skin, they could have a nose that could be mistaken as a sword, but no that couldn't be it..it has to be their skin color, their teeth could be so yellow that traffic slows when they smile..but no that couldn't be the reason, it has to be their skin color, they could have the personality of a jellyfish, but no that couldn't be it..it has to be their skin color.

Honestly women, most often if a guy rejects you it isn't because of this made up reason or that one, it's simply he's not into, and probably still wouldn't be whether or not you have kids, whether or not your black white, brown or otherwise, it wouldn't matter he still wouldn't be into you




I think the op is speaking about the times when the issue IS skin color,, specfically


msharmony's photo
Tue 08/04/15 10:41 PM


In 2015 why does it appear that we haven't progressed beyond the 1930. Does skin tone really matter? If so...why?


Perhaps you could ask that question to all of the black women who won't date a man if he is white.


where on mingle does such a creature exist,,,lol


msharmony's photo
Tue 08/04/15 10:47 PM

Personally, I love the idea of being in an interracial relationship, but that's just me.




race is social and irrelevant to attraction or compatibility , for me


also, though I prefer taller guys, it doesnt mean I ONLY date taller guys

people often describe mandates as 'preferences' but they are seperate things

I have a long list of 'preferences' but no mandate when it comes to asthetics that people are born with, like race or hair color,,,etc,,, I have a mandate with gender because the parts don't fit and its against nature (in my opinion) and Against Gods design for sexual relations



I would love to find the RIGHT person someday, but that wont be defined by having the right 'skin' or height , or anything else they have nothing to do with,,,


it will be much more about having the right 'character' and values...
























Bernard2020's photo
Wed 08/05/15 01:07 AM
people have different tastes and preferencies..........so i wd understand if i was neglected for my colour.....
however.....i wdnt consider colour for my happiness

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