I realize people nowadays want things right now.... but it amazes me how many people on this site say they want to meet their soulmate but he or she must be within 50 or 100 miles!!!! lol Well answer this..what if he or she ISNT within 50-100 miles..do you not talk to others? Do you give up?? Do you settle?? Maybe you out there who expect Prince Charming to live down the block need to realize the chances are better at winning the lotto and adjust your qualifications for distance....Good things come to those who have PATIENCE!!!

well think most go off that long distance relations are really hard
and as the numbers roll dont work out
as well as they prob want to see the person in real life and do stuff with them in real life
if you are over 100 miles away you would not see each other as much

guess what? the woman 500miles away are just as crazy as the ones 5 miles away.LOL

Why does it amaze you?
Do you speak Chinese or Hindi or Indonesian?
That's about 40% of the worlds population right there. China, India, Indonesia. 3 countries. Out of about 196.
If your "soul mate" was going to be in a foreign country, then more than likely it would be one of those than any other individual country.
And none of them have English as their primary language.

I'd be more amazed about someone believing in soul mates and willing to search foreign countries for a bride but unwilling to learn the necessary language, or focusing solely on English speaking ones.


What if they are within 50-100 miles?
If you believe in soul mates, don't you have to believe that someone or something created that person specifically for you, as opposed to complete and total random chance?
How evil would it be for that which creates souls, the soul that is a companion to yours, to put them halfway across the world? To actively hide them from you? It would be like god or nature absolutely abhorred you and really didn't want you to find them at all.
Is it that good of an idea to go against what nature or god wants?
They put them far away without offering you any kind of clue whatsoever on how to find them...maybe they don't want you to.

Other than that, when you are looking for something you have no idea if it exists or where, wouldn't it just be common sense to look around you first rather than taking off into wilderness parts unknown?


Not always.
You ever been to the DMV? How about having to wait for the cable guy to show up?
Patience is a good thing to have, after you've found your "soul mate."
Not so good to sit around and wait.
But if you are going to look, it makes sense to look close to you first, doesn't it?

I have looked close to me and they don't attract me. The ones who I have found to be attractive live half way around the world, like New Zealand or an Englishman in Thailand or Canada. If you really want to find someone worthy, it seems like you really have to go out of your way to meet him.

“If you truly want to be respected by people you love, you must prove to them that you can survive without them.”
― Michael Bassey Johnson

Distance sir is bittersweet..safe.. and exciting in a sense that you truly do not know what will actually happen in the distant future haha..

“There is a huge amount of freedom that comes to you when you take nothing personally.”
― Miguel Ruiz, The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom

- my way of saying i may not agree with what you say but i like it and i respect it:)

I have never put any filters on my profile of age or distance...I always knew for the right one the ends of the earth wouldn't be too far.


Settle no way in hell would I ever settle for anything in life.

hold up...just gonna go google the distance between us..where did ya say you live?