Good Day my friends of M2, once again shouts out to all my opinion minions you know I really love and value your thoughts. For anybody new posting to my topics , how you making out today? good I hope. Okay, my friends of M2, your boy got himself in a serious pickle. Let me explain, well about couple month ago I met this beautiful woman name Cindy. We was crazy about each other and even fell in love with each other, everything was great. The only thing that stood in between us was distance. See I live in Pennsylvania, she lives in our neighboring state of New Jersey. We made time regardless of distance. So in a nut shell we were in a regional relationship. One day, we lost communication & it was a small period where we both thought its was over. I know I know, more could of been done to strengthen our love again regarding distance & calling each other everyday , sometimes all day , we will talk & voicemail & text each other daily. So , when we lost communication I thought we was done, so recently I met this other woman here in Philly, pa , right in my same city. She approached me at my school and we talked & she gave me her number first. At first I wasn't going to call because I didn't know if I wanted to hook up with anyone considering my time schedule & other things. So then I called her back and I started to dig her mind & who she become. Not to mention we have so much in common . So I took her to lunch & we really got to know each other. Yesterday, I got a call from my Cindy & old love returned , we hooked back up & I'm extremely happy, but OMG, I just got with Lacey! What the heck am I to do....so my minions what should I do? Should I continue with Lacey , the woman I met in school or continue with my Cindy ? I'm really NOT TRYING TO HURT EITHER ONE SO I HAVE TO BE A REAL MAN AND MAKE A REAL MAN'S DICSION BUT IT HURT TO GET SOME THINKING & SUPPORT FROM MY M2 FRIENDS. I love Cindy but I like Lacey! so spill it ......I need your help & feedback......

Thank you my friends

we'll talk soon!

'A bird in hand is worth two in the bush.'

Wow you do have yourself in a pickle for sure...

But to be honest guess more info needs to be told... Were you and Cindy in a real so called Relationship as in it has went to the point to sleeping with each other or just all by phone and maybe a few dates..

Cause it seems if y'all lost communication to the point you thought it was over then it must not have been a very strong relationship.

did you get engaged to one of them? im sure I remember you saying you did. Im sorry my memory doesn't serve me very well.

I need to think on this one, but like Kristi said you are in a pickle with this one.

Build a space ship or call for help, hope there are no evil space sharks nearby, and crap towards the gravity well, you don't want to be swimming around in that.


What does this mean?
You reconciled over the phone?
Or you met and had sex?


This isn't all that clear:

You talked everyday, there was a miscommunication and you thought you broke up because of what you two said, but really it was just a misunderstanding, maybe an argument, and you both were waiting for the other to make contact?

Or you said words like "we need to stop seeing/talking/texting/voicemailing each other, it's over"?



Well...if this is true:

the answer seems fairly obvious.

If that's really not true, that you didn't really fall in "love" with a woman you met a couple of months ago and spend most of your time talking on the phone and computer, then what have you got?

Cindy - a woman that lives in another state, where your relationship is based primarily on impersonal means of communication.
You are more in a relationship with your phone and computer than with her.

Lacey - someone you can spend more time with off your computer and phone, someone new who you haven't broken up with, or have a lot of problems with miscommunication based on the inherent nature of your relationship.

Personally, I'd go with local.
But, I don't know either of the women so to me they are equal except for distance.

okay so how what do you suggest for me?

to txsGal3333

yes me and Cindy where in a real serious relationship. she even told me she loved me first.......


see I know what it looks like to break a heart and I told myself I would never do that to a woman or anybody again....

to ciretom,

well you called it....we reconcile over the phone and I plan to spend time with her this weekend. I got to be honest I 'm leaning towards my Cindy for the fact I'm in love with her & we have a little history....Lacey's nice too and she really like me.

Wow glad I am not in your shoes
Only you can decide what is best for you.
Would a pro and con list help with each lady?

go with your heart , who you really love and who can see yourself spending the rest of your life with.

good luck

Humm then see what the weekend holds for you. That should be enough to tell you where you want to be and with whom..

If you truly love Cindy then it should not be a hard decision since it is only infatuation with Lacy at this point....

I'm starting to believe you make things up. Your love situation seems to change every week, as per Debbie's post above. You have us all confused. And wouldn't it make sense to stay with the one you have built a relationship with and claim to be in love with? This is a no brainer.

Flip a coin

I've got a very wicked idea. Let both Cindy and Lacey know the situation and be honest about it. Then let them decide what they would like to do.

Guess I wouldn't have let myself get into such a predicament. As I would've found out what the heck the situation was for certain before going out with another woman.

You moved on without really trying to find out what was going on with Cindy right? Hmmmmmm.....and it took awhile for her to reach out to you. I think she tried something with someone else, it didn't work and now she comes back to you. I say stick with Lacey and see where things lead. Might be the right call.....might be the wrong call.....but I feel no matter what it is the best call for you. Just my humble opinion.

to debbie1980,

yes my cindy........

first question i have is...Do you and cindy have a rock solid plan to eliminate the long distance part of the relationship? after that is answered then your other question will evaporate.


or just flip a coin and be honest and up front with both of them

to Annierooroo,


lol well I'm a good guy caught up in a web of emotions. I promise to all my minions this weekend I will make a serious decision....okay yaw can count on me to do the right thing. again I'm not trying to hurt either or! my mom raised me to respect women and always to use my brain in sticky situations!

to Eric22t,

yes and I can vouch she would agree with me. you know my friend , lol in a joking way maybe I should flip a coin...lol but no, I will make my decision on Saturday and I will let all know who I choose.

Can you work a drum roll into the Saturday announcement?