When you are talking on the phone, saying your "good byes" , " good nights", etc... Who hangs up first? Do you quietly wait for for each other? Do you fall asleep with the phone still on your ear? Do you invent a chore just to excuse yourself from that little ache inside? Or keep them wanting more?

When you kiss each other good night, or have to head back home, etc....do you linger while a taxi waits? Do you tear yourself away or watch them go until they're long gone?

You'll see them again anyway, right?

I hang up first. I don't linger. He can't get enough of me.

One point for purposely trying to keep them wanting more

It depends. I think the protocol is that the person who calls is supposed to end the call. But, depending upon how well you know someone, friends can end a call when they have something to do.

No call can last forever!!! However, I can remember some that seemed to last for hours a long time ago.

LOL...this is a good one!!

For me, it certainly depends on the person I am talking to. Sometimes lingering, sometimes saying goodbye/goodnight first and GET OUT.

Oh i wasnt talking about "friend" calls...that wouldnt even be an issue in the first place...

Oh yes, i remember having those kinds of phone convos...

Let us assume, it is a mutually rewarding honeymoon phase convo for both parties ...

The red flag calls are self - explanatory

Actually, that would make a great topic. Red flag calls. Ha

That might actually be more entertaining

Go ahead. Make one. Lol

In due time...

I don't remember as it's been so long since I've had to do this sort of thing. <shrugs>

Texting ruined the art of a good conversation...

Uh no. I meant because I haven't had a date or phone call to be of that nature in over 2 years...

With girlfriends I always let them do the hanging up and that seems like the best policy with insecure types, or it's the polite "nice guy" thing to do. I'm a talker and sometimes I'll keep doing a sort of Columbo and I'll start talking about something else after saying bye.

It does depend on the woman though. My last girlfriend never seemed comfortable talking on the phone and that made it a bit awkward and we didn't talk much on the phone. That can be a red flag thing in itself when it's like that. Some people just don't like to talk on the phone but it could mean that they aren't actually that into you, or don't have much time for you and you're just a booty call.

They usually hang up on me first lol I don't know why!.. I think the conversation is going well... heading in the right direction that is and Then they just hang up on me... they usually mumble something like what a perv or that's just sick lol

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Hang up first after saying a nice good bye because I don't want to sound desperate or needy.

It's usually a good sign if he leaves me wanting more. I never stay on the phone for very long. Why do that when we can see each other in person anyway?

Really?......hmmmmm