Thanks

I shall continue with my block button.

An excellent point raised, my 'friend'.

I have been ruminating for a while, and finally deduced that this issue might be capably dealt by:

(a) Aged people, who have remained married to the very same person, all through their lives.

(b) Men & Women of 'this' generation, who've been married, at least once.

we were more socialist then,, the good of the unit instead of the self,,,


not saying whether thats good or bad,, but it does seem the obvious difference

noone has a 'role' in the unit,, everyone just has to do what they want,,,

Yes, fighting over the volume of the tv was the final straw of bigger issues. The bigger issue was me trying to get to sleep so I could get up and go to work so I could support her, while all she wanted was to lay in bed, watch tv and text with her friends (male and female) all night long. She couldn't even get up and walk down the hall to make phones call for her job, on time because of her late night antics. So yes, the tv was not the root cause of the divorce, but was the final argument we had before she moved out.

Your mother and I agree on this whole heartedly.... just can't seem to find anyone like this :S

"When two people love each other, DIVORCE IS NOT AN OPTION". I love this!!!

ya know, this is how I think about INFIDELITY, and abandonment

but if infidelity and/or abandonment becomes an option for my partner, Divorce becomes an option for me

This is absolutely true...
Marriage, when it is healthy, will include its share of sacrificing for each other. But people nowadays don't have the mind to sacrifice for each other instead they end up divorcing.
Two people cannot come together in one home, love, communicate, and care for each other without occasionally suffering for each other.

''My husband is an amazing example of a sacrificing husband. There have been several times I’ve cut back on certain foods for my health and he’s been faithful to not only support me, but to give up the same foods. Even when he would be out of my presence, he would still turn them down. Perhaps his biggest sacrifice was when he gave me the amazing chance to stop working outside the home, allowing me to work on my health goals and to devote time to my home and to our work with couples. He willingly went without extra fun money and time to give me this opportunity and to bless our family. He is the hardest working man I know, and I am truly blessed to have him. "

We need to develop strong love and sacrifice among ourselves to keep our marriage everlasting.

Excellent!