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so lets see !! if a guy isn't egotistical , self absorbed male, chauvinistic jerk, who talks about himself , and all his toys , great looking , and has deep pockets , "ken doll " "American pie type guys " ........................Remember the quote "patience is a virtue " the more one gets into a deep intense conversation , you pretty much can get vital info on anyone, in any relationship marriage friendship !!communication is key !! "don't run to fast " remember the tortoise and the hare ??? lmao !! i've been told that a lot , or why am i still single . when we don't as men fit that typical male code women tend to look for and speak from our heart and soul , touch that sensitivity , mysterious side of their intuition , just can't point my finger on "him " not that guy i spoke of "above " is this to good to be true ??? when a man is true to himself , through years of searching discovering exploring he has comes to grips , what truly makes up a good woman ?? and its not just great sex !!! but more importantly !!getting to the core of her , by listening , being supportive , putting her needs before your own , that producing trust , faithfulness , honesty , loyalty dedicated to one woman !!! "women tend not to believe men can't do ??................the good guys like myself are not driven by just beauty, sex and T/A but a more full filling rewarding , heart felt , tear dropping experience with a woman , that's lasting and not superficial surface chat !!!....................reach something uniquely special inside you !!! why is that to good to be true??? ................because your not use to it !!! that's why !! ...........some of us live outside that box of conformity stereotypical men live in !!!.............doubt is an enemy of your mind !!!............see for yourself !!! and see if its to good to be true !!! Isaiah

After a few emails ask for a Skype call to check they are the person in their profile photo, any excuses and I would suspect they are not who they say they are. Good luck and I hope all goes well for you.

You can meet these sorts of time wasters OFFLINE too.

You can Skype with him and ask him to show his ID card, last educational certificate, recent salary slip and all legal declaration documents of his separation (if applicable)..;-)

Yeah. Sorry that you had to go through that. Sometimes we don't realize what we've gotten ourselves into. One time, I thought a man I was with was really into me, yet he ended up betraying me. He made a lot of false promises. And of course, it broke my heart. We live and learn.

Thank you guys, for all your replies. Skype, i think is the best way to know. He suddenly got "sick," and I don't hear from him that often anymore, so I guess I am right about my instinct. Oh well, c'est la vie.