Topic: WOULD YOU TAKE BACK YOUR EX?
Annierooroo's photo
Sun 06/28/15 01:45 PM
No I gave him everything and he wanted me dead. No he would be the only one I would not help. It would be hard not to help him because of the kids.
I have washed my hands of him.
Time to leave the past in the past

isaac_dede's photo
Sun 06/28/15 02:23 PM
nope, wouldn't take her back, wouldn't help her out, probably would walk right by and not say hi.....now if she were to crash and was in a car fire........then i might.........



well i might applaud

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Mon 06/29/15 03:53 AM
^ Tell us how you really feel. laugh

SitkaRains's photo
Mon 06/29/15 05:29 PM
I have done it and the answer is NO... Never again.
I have only one EX that I wouldn't pour water on him if he was on fire the rest are such great men and I wouldn't want to do that to them or me again..


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Mon 06/29/15 05:38 PM
Absolutely Not! No way.

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Tue 06/30/15 11:25 AM
It's a really hard one to me because I believe every break up is a failure. Not that I think that of people who had to go through a break up, just the fact we didn't succeed. So That's why I always hope to see that something in her eyes. The regret of putting an end to something we had, the fact she realizes she made mistakes and that she somethimes have to forgive and forget. I always think about things that should have been better, but it seems sometimes sorry comes too late ... I speak for me even though I never really disrespected a woman.
So mostly NO ... I won't but the last X was a girl I deeply loved ... if she could think about ways to make it work well I would be honoured and take her back if it seems to be truthful :-)

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 06/30/15 12:17 PM
Hmmmmm an abusive alcoholic? No way!

QualityOrQuantity's photo
Tue 06/30/15 12:45 PM
Edited by QualityOrQuantity on Tue 06/30/15 12:45 PM
Ex's are no good...never heard any nice tale about exes. Xxxxxxxx..!

KaiLee15's photo
Tue 06/30/15 04:13 PM
never lose hope...give chances for everyone even if it your ex. . .if she's wanted another chance for our relationship it's okay and if not,still it's okay.

driftingLuke's photo
Tue 06/30/15 04:20 PM
First wife yes, second wife no. First wife it wasn't her fault, or anyone's for that matter, we were both young and that relationship was a victim of circumstance. Second wife was all her doing so hell no.

no1phD's photo
Tue 06/30/15 06:31 PM
would you take back your ex..?..
. that depends.. is she still the same cold ballbusting biatch.. she was when she left..?.. if so !!no thank you..laugh :wink: :angel:

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Tue 06/30/15 11:08 PM
I want accepted ma ex back

Valeris's photo
Wed 07/01/15 01:40 AM

Take him-Back? Hell Noooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!! I don't even want anyone to know we even know each other!!! :laughing:

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Wed 07/01/15 03:34 AM
Mine I gave a choice.. you can pick the bottle of Vodka or your husband.. but you can't have both. well here I am Lol

No. I would not go back to that.

mikeyspace4691's photo
Wed 07/01/15 03:48 AM
I was getting along great with an ex once ( the mother of my son ) until we tried to get back together.. Now we can't be around each other for two minutes without words..

Let the past be the past..:thumbsup:

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Wed 07/01/15 05:43 PM
I would say no for many reasons no matter what sex you are if you as a person goes out cheat abuse lies etc than that tells me we are done .I had a girlfriend I really cared for but the lies got to deep and I discovered she went on to these sex perverted sites flirting with men the reason how I found out her computer popped on and her yahoo messenger went on and holy crap .Even confronting her she busted her computer on the floor. Now I let this slide gave her a change to redeem herself and correct the mistake she made she then repeated again meet this guy on Facebook told me he was a she she was a School friend I paid no mind thought ok I can trust her .Everything goes find then morning she goes honey sm going to the store I brb ok many hours go by I tried to call her no response she then tells me through the text read my letter ok what letter so I find this letter hidden she stated am leaving you for a black man heading to MarylandIi was in shock hurt I filed a missing person with the police also noticed she was not on her pills she has bipolar disorder .Telling the cop this was new she gave no warning .Point is once a cheater always a cheater no matter what **** they tell you that trust is gone their is no way it can be fixed that damage is done.Funny how people tell you they love you but do this behind your back .I don't dwell on it no more but a good story it taught me that looks can be deceiving in this case .

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Wed 07/01/15 05:58 PM
That would be like me wearing a sign on my forehead which says "stupid" and one on my back that says "kick me" slaphead

msharmony's photo
Wed 07/01/15 06:03 PM

WOULD YOU TAKE BACK YOUR EX?

I read so many tales of woe here by people with broken hearts. So many lonely hearts. So many broken relationships. So many people beating themselves up for making relationship mistakes. I kept wondering the same thing over and over. If your ex came to you and told you that they never stopped loving you and they wanted to start again and fell down to their knees and beseeched you to take them back, pulling at your heartstrings, would you take them back? Be honest. No posturing or pride, please. Please share why or why not.

I would not take back my ex-BF because he was abusive. It was a painful breakup for me but I am glad that it didn't work out. It would have only brought me more misery later down the road. Sometimes, breakups are blessings in disguise, preparing us for worthy, quality partners later in life. Next time, we are stronger and wiser and better equipped to hold on to the good ones.


it depends upon which ex,,,:tongue:

some of them were young and immature AT THE TIME,, but grew up nice SINCE THEN

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 07/01/15 06:25 PM
No.....by the time I'm at the point they are a ex, there was a good reason they got there...I can be civil to them and that is as far as it goes...whoa


Funboydima's photo
Wed 07/01/15 11:32 PM
yes, she left me without a decent explanation. perhaps im stupid but shes mother of my kids. Even though she caused lots of pain emotionally and financialy i still wood. the only explanation i got was "i lost my feelings" and 'im tired of you working so much"yet she loved my over time money.
ps. we were maried just 2month short of 5yrs