Soooo i've noticed some people around here who tend to get on people that have some issues with this or that, and explore them or talk about them on here. It seems everyone avoids people that have real world problems. It is unsexy to alot. See, yea, it's probly not sexy to hear that the girl or guy you think is interesting has lost his job, or she had some **** happened with her friends, or they have some self confidence issues. Yea, great this is a dating site. I get that. Yet, most people around here just mask there **** better or don't talk about it.

See, those people that are open about it, the next time you want to jump on them, or couragiously put them on your mental "hell no" list, think that they are also the type of person 95% of the profiles here are dieing to be with. Thats honest. And every female profile i've seen wants an honest loyal guy. (though don't discount the job thing, i hear thats what attracts women). I love flirting, and i'm damn good at it. Flirting don't show character, it shows creativity. Maybie, just maybie, some of these people that are being passed over because of this, are not only worth it, but are the ones you have been seeking. Besides, i honestly wonder what someone who hasn't had some type of issues is doing on a site like this. Your soul mate isn't the perfect person, there just you, with a little differnt flavor, but more or less the same issues, heart and soul.

So, to all the girls and guys who are keeping it real, love ya. For everyone else, take a good look at someone before you judge them by what they say.

Yea, this isn't aimed at alot of people, but it's something that everyone needs to figure out.

Flame me if ya want. I already got what i wanted.

Great post, Charlie...

You said you got what you wanted... so what is that?

An amazing chance with a girl who's got the same problems as me, yet who's also got the same hopes and dreams as me. And guess what, shes been through the same crap as me, and survived it like me. She grew stronger like me. She likes the same things as me, and she's honest and loyal like me. And if she was a guy, she would be me.

Yea, it may sound gay, but i'd totally do me!

LMAO @ I'd totally do me! I'd do me too! Too bad I haven't found the male version of me yet!!

Hey, you stole that from me! LOL, I'd so do ME too! HAHA!




Ur such a Bevis...

Anyway, this woman sounds like a real catch... who knows: maybe, just maybe she's the one for you...

*grin* 639 miles to vegas baby, or one weak moment!!!

My left ear hurts.... its ALL UR FAULT!

very well said charlie!