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Why not if both are willing and like each other go for it
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sex on a first date or naw?
Maybe. Depends on the date. It's usually "naw" though. Mostly because one date with people is more than enough time with them. your take on this?
It's only "bad" if one person expects to have sex on the first date and ends up judging the other person as "bad" if they don't live up to the one sided expectations. No problems with having sex. It's expecting sex that makes it a problem, IMO. |
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Hey Tilly! 
Just wondering....do you like the taste of beer? 
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Hey Tilly!
Just wondering....do you like the taste of beer?
nope  
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Hey Tilly!
Just wondering....do you like the taste of beer?
nope
NEXT!!!! |
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Yes dear
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Sometimes
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Sex on the first date.?
What's a date? I can't remember!! |
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*wags finger at tv camera*
"I, did not have sexual relations with that woman... whatsherface". Okay, maybe I did. .... There is no set in stone "time". Just whenever a couple feel the time is right. Be it, the first date, or the fiftieth date. |
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No way. I can't believe how some can have sex with
someone who'll never return. I had enough of that as a college student. I never want to re-live the student life. I'm far wiser than that now. |
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I love how judgmental most of the prudes are on here!
If people deem sex fit to happen on the 1st date, so be it. It doesn't necessarily mean either person is a hoe or slut puppy, it means that particular chemistry was being felt and wanted to go to the next level of intimacy.  but it does happen, and for those that want to be chaste until they're ready, can.
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SEX on a first date: = SLUT WITH A DISEASE, HOPE THERE WAS PROTECTION = DESPERATE WOMAN WITH NO VALUES, TOO BAD SHE DOESN'T UNDERSTAND = DUMB WOMAN, WILLING TO DO ANYTHING FOR LOVE = COUGAR, AND WAY TO MANY OF THEM OUT THERE = COLLEGE WOMAN WITH NO VALUES, NASTY AND TOO MANY OF THESE TOO OH and lets not forget this one: = LONELY, HE WONT BE CALLING YOU BACK (SEE ALL FIVE ABOVE) OR You made a mistake, don't make the same mistake twice!!! Your answer = narrow minded It's almost like men are not inlvolved in this sex on a first date. |
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Edited by
SassyEuro2
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Fri 06/19/15 07:10 AM
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your take on this? ONLY it is mutually agreed to, in advance, by the people that, that is ALL it will be EVER be, with NO emotional attachment or obligations. * A one night stand or a ' buffing buddy ' * Other wise. Not a chance in hell. And people are just being foolish . |
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SEX on a first date: = SLUT WITH A DISEASE, HOPE THERE WAS PROTECTION = DESPERATE WOMAN WITH NO VALUES, TOO BAD SHE DOESN'T UNDERSTAND = DUMB WOMAN, WILLING TO DO ANYTHING FOR LOVE = COUGAR, AND WAY TO MANY OF THEM OUT THERE = COLLEGE WOMAN WITH NO VALUES, NASTY AND TOO MANY OF THESE TOO OH and lets not forget this one: = LONELY, HE WONT BE CALLING YOU BACK (SEE ALL FIVE ABOVE) OR You made a mistake, don't make the same mistake twice!!! Your answer = narrow minded It's almost like men are not inlvolved in this sex on a first date. Well done sexy wench!  ...
As for sex on the first date, I think a lot of these answers are BS with a capitol B...It may not be the smartest or the safest or even the most practical, but chit does happen and when it does it DOES NOT necessarily define us...So my answer would be, "I'm not ruling it out".... |
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It never was my "thing" and I don't expect it to be in the future. However, I don't see anything wrong with it if that's what you want to do.
Even if it is not your plan there are lots of reasons why what works for one person or for one date is different from others. Maybe you have known the person for awhile and this just happens to be the first date. Maybe you just make a quick connection. Maybe you are drunk. In any case, maybe the result is a good time. 
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No. To me it's a matter of respect for her and confidence in myself. Men would do well to take a page from the "Comedian's Handbook." Always leave them wanting more. If she's grabbing for your belt buckle on the first date and you stop her she'll remember that to her dying day because you're probably the only man to ever do so. It's all about scene control.
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I think I'll just worry about getting that initial date first! |
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In today's society compared to 40 years ago? No ****ing way!!!!!!!!:
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