when did we need more the one we Love? In happy moments Or sad?

uhm why cant we have them for both ? : )

but i guess if i had to pick one
i would say sad
cause most of the times they are with me i am happy to be with them
and me with out them can make me sad

Both. Because relationships with the ones we love and care for are suppose to grow and develop thru both the good and bad times.

For me it is more the happy moments. I spent a lot of my early years very often alone and I learned how to cope.

But when something nice happens and you don't have that person to celebrate together, to see happiness reflected in their eye, to direct the feeling of generosity and accomplishment on, or gift for a holiday, I tend to miss that more.

For both happy and sad moments. Though, I'd rather not let him see me upset. I don't like crying in front of people. I can be quite shy, so I don't like loads of fuss.

haha and I haven't any lover yet! But I think i would need her in sad more than happiness

After 1 1/2hrs, of refection... ^^^^^ this

I say both
Good times and bad

I am so used to dealing with the issues in my life alone.
And if I had only one choice I would want to them there more for the laughter in my life...

for both.

Brave!

IMO it's bad to think of when you need someone "more."

You need them at all times, you have to keep believing or knowing you need them period.

Otherwise you run the extreme risk of taking them for granted except for when you need them "most." And that never turns out well.

I agree, I tend to deal with the serious issues myself, but sharing laughter is the best medicine by far.

I would say both, but in times of deep sadness, such as a close bereavement, is perhaps the time when we do need the one we love the most.

This one. confuses me...not really sure since he was gone most time anyways..got a vague concept that both might been nice

The "need" word makes this a tougher question than it might be. It's such a charged, almost political word.

I don't NEED my mate ever, on some levels. Even when my entire life is based around trying to make them have as much fun as I can, and the only reason for my existence is them, I would still shy away from saying I NEED them.


I guess in a way, I ache for reassurance when I am down, and I ache for mutual confirmation when I am up. Some people use the word "need," to refer to those sensations.

I'm so used to deal alone in my own life I need somebody who is able to cope with really hard things I used to live not fearing to make me sink into an ocean's advices