well i always wanted to get married..

Lord help me!! Does Veronica even know who the hell this persons ex is? I think she is rather confused.
I think you need time out to figure out who you really are. I have to agree with freeagent...either be gay or straight, what the hell is up with this bi chit? I honestly just don't get it!! If you are engaged then you need to be faithful to that ONE person...is that so hard for you? If it is...then get out of that relationship...geesh how hard is that to figure out?

Just because you have always wanted to get married does not mean you should rush into anything! Think about this .....did you always want to get divorced? Did you always want to be a single mom? If it is even in question weather or not this man is right for you or if you are ready to marry him, then the answer is no you are not.....JMO

Unsure, read her profile if you want to see some more confusion.

OH I forgot something...I honestly think this is whats wrong with today. No one can stick with one person. What is wrong with making a commentment? It seems like everyone has to be doing someone else on a different night. Good golly...people get your lives in order, I just hope your children don't know whats really going on in your lives!!

Yep Hillfolk...she is deffinately confused!!! I think she needs help all the way around

Unsure.....A bit on the judgemental side there don't you think?
You can voice your opinion without attacking.......

I am not attacking anyone, I am just stating my opinion

Her "strong" opinion :P

Hey Zen...how are you buddy??

I agree with unsure...about commitment. People just want to be "free" with no strings attached. I know I'm pushing 50 here, but in my younger dating years...

You dated a few years and made a vow to be together. To now know what you want out of life is fine. BUT, why would she want to be with a girl knowing that her b/f is DEAD set against it??

To me...your just asking for trouble...

no no...okay...my boyfriend i am dating right now..wants to marry me next month...and my ex boyfriend girlfriend..shes tellling me that she as feelings for me..and i told my boyfriend everything cuz i am opened with him

Om if you said yes to getting married? Why the hell would you even be thinking about anyone ele oreven asking what should I do.

This is why people shoulden't get married so soon. This whole post is is just wrong. To many young people looking at marriage like it's some datting game. If you not ready to get married then don't toy with the man that asked you. Your asking for help, but what your asking actually is how can you help me have my cake and ice cream too. If I seem a little rough "GOOD" because right now all i'm seening and knowing and how you posted on another thread about all I need is my Jake. You need to wake up to reality and realized people are not thing you can play with and throw away when your done with them.

well i am going to stay with my boyfriend..cuz i am happy with him

I feel like I'm getting a head case just reading this. Damn, people are so confusing anymore. This is why so many marriages end in divorce, cause people think its "fun" to get married. Lord have mercy on their children, they may have some hefty doctor bills to pay in the future...

Princess,

What does your heart tell you to do.

To question what you should do tells me you need more time to figure things out because marriage is not something you do and throw it away when you want to do something else. If that is your attitude, you are building up for more issues for you that add to your confusing state right now.

I think, what you need is for me to kick some sense in ya. …but then, if you fook up, you can always write another post and tell us what following troubles you have, then we can talk about it ......shakes head, the people we meet on these forums haha

lol...ok, picking myself off the floor...omg Sin..you are right on the money!!..took the words right out of my mouth, oh yeah and brain....

hmmm..methinks some oats need to be sowed before the alter thangy takes place?..just a thought..i get those from time to time..

mmmmmm nice
why don't u date both at the same time
then everybody is happy
it's even cheaper if the three of u go in the same date.

I think you need to stop taking this womans phone calls and start working on your current relationship.I would also suggest you postpone the wedding until your head is out of your ass.