Topic: please help me:
princessveronica's photo
Wed 10/10/07 09:14 AM
shes telling me that she wants to be in my life and that she loves me...

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Wed 10/10/07 09:16 AM
and did you ever even think that she could be playing a game with your head just to break you and your bf up?? Get your head outta the sand and open your eyes, this is sooo a bad thing..its going to end badly for all involved

lilwabbit's photo
Wed 10/10/07 09:16 AM
tell her you're in a relationship now and you're commited to it, but would still like to be friends. if she really cares for you'll she'll be ok with this. then if anything ever happens your boyfriend changes his mind or things dont work out, you know she's still there

princessveronica's photo
Wed 10/10/07 09:16 AM
i am thinking about finding another girl to have a threesome with us

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Wed 10/10/07 09:17 AM
I agree with CCP...
Can't have your cake and eat it too...

seanusmc26's photo
Wed 10/10/07 09:18 AM
SEX IS SEX be open minded, do you really think someone wants to have sex with just 'you' for the rest of their life.. get real!!! WE DONT LIVE IN THE 50'S ANYMORE..

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Wed 10/10/07 09:18 AM
Remember love is not the same as lust....its obvious you lust over the idea of being with her, but there's no guarantee for long term happiness. Don't kid yourself...it's either fun, fun, fun, or stay engaged. You know you want some fun...haha

seanusmc26's photo
Wed 10/10/07 09:20 AM
TELL them sin39

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Wed 10/10/07 09:20 AM
Sea....what makes you think I am bi...? Don't jump to conclusions.

Anyway the truth of the matter is that boils down to a respect issue. If and when you get married there will always be people that you are attracted to. It is not right to act on those attractions unless it is something that you and your partner have come to some sort of an agreement on.

Besides I would not be so anxious to invite my boyfriends ex back into his bed!

seanusmc26's photo
Wed 10/10/07 09:20 AM
not you FRESH

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Wed 10/10/07 09:22 AM
blushing blushing sorry.....guess I read it wrong...

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Wed 10/10/07 09:22 AM
i guess if youre asking that question you dont have much of a relationship going with your "BOYFRIEND". we dont live in the 60s anymore either .what i keep thinking relationships were monogamous im just too damn old

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Wed 10/10/07 09:22 AM
I have no issues with people that are bi, nor do I have issues with 3 somes..but this ex gf of the current bf bit is just asking for trouble..find someone else to hook up with leave ALL exes out of the picture ..it is just going to end up with people getting hurt...thats all I'm sayin

princessveronica's photo
Wed 10/10/07 09:23 AM
thats what i am thinking 2..that shes playing with my head..but when i asked her about that..she was like i am not playing with ur head..i really like u

seanusmc26's photo
Wed 10/10/07 09:23 AM
BUT FRESH, its 2007 you can be if you want...:wink: :wink:

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Wed 10/10/07 09:24 AM
get your bf and go meet some new women, there are plenty of bi fems out there that are willing and looking for this type of fling, just leave the exes out of it

seanusmc26's photo
Wed 10/10/07 09:24 AM
you women always PLAY HEAD GAMES not to sound mean..but u know you do and you are good at it

seanusmc26's photo
Wed 10/10/07 09:25 AM
but ccp its sounds like she likes the ex. right

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Wed 10/10/07 09:27 AM
it sounds like she just wants an excuse to step out of the engagement....this ex cannot be the only bi chick in town...so its needless drama

Nickinolosers's photo
Wed 10/10/07 09:27 AM
Pick a team and stay with it
What do you want
a male or female relationship?

I know I have had bi friends tell me they are emotionally attracted to women but sexually attracted to men

But again

Pick a Team