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Topic: why is everybody hostile here.
no photo
Tue 05/26/15 01:57 PM


You wouldn't. ohwell


The worst comment I saw came from you...whoa


You taught me well.

no photo
Tue 05/26/15 01:58 PM

IamWhoIam stated >>>
Don't believe what he tells you about me. ^ I'm a good person. :angel:


Say there little missy...I've peeked under that halo and I saw what was keeping it propped up: those 2 wee-little horns speak loudly of a inner pitchfork :wink:


No, no, that's my evil twin!!! :angel:

Eyitayo1984's photo
Tue 05/26/15 03:22 PM
Hi, I have sent messages to people but I have gotten no respond. That was y I posted that. Will you reply me if I want to chat with you?

Eyitayo1984's photo
Tue 05/26/15 03:28 PM
Thank you sir.

Rock's photo
Tue 05/26/15 03:28 PM

Why is it that to make friend here is hard. Is it because am an african?

No.
It's because of your attempt to use
a guilt trip on people, to manipulate
them.

motowndowntown's photo
Tue 05/26/15 03:32 PM

Oh c'mon op.
Try being Canadian on here!
All I hear is "say aboot, say aboot".
Aaaaahhhh.
You don't know what hostile is.

Welcome to mingle.


How do we know you're a "real" Canadian if ya don't say
"oot and aboot" eh?

metalwing's photo
Tue 05/26/15 03:39 PM

Oh c'mon op.
Try being Canadian on here!
All I hear is "say aboot, say aboot".
Aaaaahhhh.
You don't know what hostile is.

Welcome to mingle.


I thought "aboot" was Scottish?spock

rug212001's photo
Tue 05/26/15 03:54 PM


Oh c'mon op.
Try being Canadian on here!
All I hear is "say aboot, say aboot".
Aaaaahhhh.
You don't know what hostile is.

Welcome to mingle.


I thought "aboot" was Scottish?spock


Depends on the vocal pronunciation of it.

rug212001's photo
Tue 05/26/15 03:57 PM
As to the op

Most people are not hostile here. However, you seem to be taking a lack of response as a hostile act. Lack of response just means move on to the next. Good luck out there and welcome.

SitkaRains's photo
Tue 05/26/15 04:13 PM


Oh c'mon op.
Try being Canadian on here!
All I hear is "say aboot, say aboot".
Aaaaahhhh.
You don't know what hostile is.

Welcome to mingle.


How do we know you're a "real" Canadian if ya don't say
"oot and aboot" eh?

oh thus man is most definitely a Canadian. pitchfork smitten Swedes also say hoose. And his boot and his aye is hilarious when he gets going.:laughing:

SitkaRains's photo
Tue 05/26/15 04:36 PM
Edited by SitkaRains on Tue 05/26/15 04:37 PM
Dang double postfrustrated laugh

no1phD's photo
Tue 05/26/15 07:17 PM
Op..hmm.. I don't think your heritage.. has anything to do with it..
.. it's probably because on your profile picture it looks like you're smelling your fingers...laugh :wink: drinker ..jk... and I'm white and I get ignored all the time.... so go figure..lol..

no1phD's photo
Tue 05/26/15 07:24 PM
Ohhh.. and I almost forgot... we're not all hostile !!!what are you talking about.. where do you get off!! calling all of us hostile...... I've been to Vietnam.. you don't know what.. Hostel is...!...jk..lol

mikeyspace4691's photo
Tue 05/26/15 08:25 PM

Op..hmm.. I don't think your heritage.. has anything to do with it..
.. it's probably because on your profile picture it looks like you're smelling your fingers...laugh :wink: drinker ..jk... and I'm white and I get ignored all the time.... so go figure..lol..


laugh Maybe he had been scratching his butt??? IDK

panchovanilla's photo
Tue 05/26/15 08:26 PM



Oh c'mon op.
Try being Canadian on here!
All I hear is "say aboot, say aboot".
Aaaaahhhh.
You don't know what hostile is.

Welcome to mingle.


How do we know you're a "real" Canadian if ya don't say
"oot and aboot" eh?

oh thus man is most definitely a Canadian. pitchfork smitten Swedes also say hoose. And his boot and his aye is hilarious when he gets going.:laughing:

It's only a matter of time, Sweetheart.
Y'alls will be saying "Yah, you betchya".
No doubt aboot it, aye.

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 05/26/15 08:50 PM
It probably just being a young beginner. If you walk into a room of mostly people who are considerably older you have to expect some to skip your comments. Especially if in the first ten you complain. Have to pay your dues grasshopper. (Movie reference and not a hostile remark.)

And when you checked in on the site. Time will have something to do with how many responses you get. You come in late or on a holiday weekend you can get little or no response. Example three o'clock in the afternoon is a moment of silence on memorial Day.

You haven't ask for your profile to be rated but that is definitely holding you back as is the culturally inappropriate body language in your lead photo. I doubt you are throwing gang signs but I would not do that in photos.

language barrier may be another. You may have better English skills than many but limited responses make people wonder if communication will be difficult. Especially since many of the forum regular posters probably don't speak any African languages. Or for that matter know that much about Africa so you have to ride out the myths and make yourself approachable.

I would strongly advise making any assumptions it has anything to do with race because every race creed and nationality post and are liked by the majority once we get to know you. Good Luck.

Mgeorge425's photo
Tue 05/26/15 09:21 PM
Hi folks, pretty folksy way about myself right? Hi Folks

Eyitayo1984's photo
Wed 05/27/15 05:42 AM

It probably just being a young beginner. If you walk into a room of mostly people who are considerably older you have to expect some to skip your comments. Especially if in the first ten you complain. Have to pay your dues grasshopper. (Movie reference and not a hostile remark.)

And when you checked in on the site. Time will have something to do with how many responses you get. You come in late or on a holiday weekend you can get little or no response. Example three o'clock in the afternoon is a moment of silence on memorial Day.

You haven't ask for your profile to be rated but that is definitely holding you back as is the culturally inappropriate body language in your lead photo. I doubt you are throwing gang signs but I would not do that in photos.

language barrier may be another. You may have better English skills than many but limited responses make people wonder if communication will be difficult. Especially since many of the forum regular posters probably don't speak any African languages. Or for that matter know that much about Africa so you have to ride out the myths and make yourself approachable.

I would strongly advise making any assumptions it has anything to do with race because every race creed and nationality post and are liked by the majority once we get to know you. Good Luck.
Thank u mama

mxmadscouser's photo
Wed 05/27/15 04:19 PM

Oh c'mon op.
Try being Canadian on here!
All I hear is "say aboot, say aboot".
Aaaaahhhh.
You don't know what hostile is.

Welcome to mingle.


Try being a scouser hahaha most women love the accent all men hate it

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