Had a date tonight
I mean he was all over me.
I kept pushing him away and he kept saying
"I have to know you want me"
I said how can I know that if I have never met you?
He then said not just about sex--put your arms around
me and hold me tight.
I said no. I mean same thing...sexual or not.
How do you know you want someone you do not even know?
Then I let him kiss me. Big mistake!!!!
I thought he was going to bite my lips off!!
geezzz
why are some guys so rough?
do some women like rough?
Anyway he left disappointed and said he wanted to break
the wall down between us.
Well, first step would have been to act like you
wanted to get to know me as a person.
Jeeeezzzz

bite his back,,, hell back off,, specially if you get a lil blood out of him

Yikes!

you're probly better off without that guy.

Yikes to her date! And, I guess yikes to you too, Thumper.

yes---
i filed his number under
do not answer

that is kinda scary that he was that persistant...

if someone bites me hard and i dont wanna be bit i bite them back hard enough to draw blood,, thats how i got called a vamp

i do not like it rough like that---
i mean alittle is okay
but biting to cause pain...
does anyone really like that?

i do sometimes,, but i have to be out of my normal mindset. and you gotta know how to do it

Hey nurjoyce...
Wow kinda freaky!
Did you have much email contact with this guy before you went out? Consider how much you got to know about him prior to meeting him in person. Any red flags you missed?

Still that kind of behavior from him is completely unacceptable. But someone like that has to have a few screws loose upstairs to think a girl wants a guy to be that upfront and assertive....which I think the better word is agressive!

I'd suggest you go back through some of your email communications. And look for those clues. That might help you recognize another like him in the future.

See like thumper95. See how he willingly told you about his nickname vamp? So you might expect him to bite off one of your fingers if you tried to steal some of his popcorn. Those sorts of clues.

Just kidding thumper...but ya really gotta read between the lines sometimes if you're not getting a lot of honest straight forward communication.

But most of all! NEVER EVER! Always stay away from guys who smile in their profile pics! They are far too dangerous for just any girl to attempt to wrangle.....you've all been warned.
:P

Yay!! Date Time!! (screeching of car brakes)Whoa.....

First date with him? Wow Joyce....
Did you know him prior, talking, forum exchanges, etc?

I won't kiss on the first date, too sacred, I want to get to know someone inside and out before that would be addressed, but sounds like this guy (use the term lightly considering)had his priorities a wee bit messed up, he overstepped the boundaries from nervousness (hence biting the lips and being rough) maybe?

Are you serious that he wants to break down the wall? Doesn't sound like there was chemistry... was there? Prior to the date?
Rough for me is in a trusted relationship, but that is me...

Wow gurly, here's a tea You are going to find someone you like that really appreciates the characteristics and qualities that make up...you...! Here's a toast to better dates in the future... stay open, stay positive and it will happen...

how can he know he wants you if he is all over ya

sounds like a jerk

if he wanted to be sure you wanted him

he would let you make the first move

but hey what do i know

Oh wait a sec nurjoyce...I think I see the problem...
On your profile in the section titled "Things I Want From a man", look at the one after self confident...

* who challenges me to be better
* who is self-confident
* who will throw himself on me and try to convince me that I like to be bit and want some sex even though I say NO!
* who helps me through when I am sad
* who listens and actually pays attention


Yeah, that one could be your problem....might want to update your profile. :P

ooooppppppppps

how can he know you want him

should have been the way it was worded

phpNguitars--LMAO
Yes- we had email contact and telephone contact.
He showed no signs. I told him that I move slow.
And he said understandable.

Yokoke-- thank you sweetie

either she types fast or that was not there

interesting

very interesting

He "wanted" you alright!!!

Heck, I dated a lady several times and we never kissed, it just wasn't there, but we are friends!!

i bite,, yeah, but i dont unless they tell me they like it

nibbles are cool...but after we know each other
and jeeezzz don't try to bite it off