Well, I sure hate it for him. You do seem to be a nice lady nurjoyce. Men sometimes think with the wrong head and sometimes take things the wrong way. I myself am a very slow person, can't help it. Maybe he was just a little anxious? Was he crazy?

Yep, nothing like a nice warm baby doll on a cold winter's night

crazy??? define crazy.
crazy for thinking i would go all the way on a first date.

"DUH"


What the HELL was I thinking???

ive never treated a woman like that its hard for me to conceive treating anyone like that you wait to get a date and you wind up with a creep like that i feel bad for you i hope you kneed him where it counts

nah-- just know better
will not be a second date

Yea nurjoyce, the other thing about being single is going to bed, like right now, by yourself

Good night ladies.

Hopefully, the next date will be better! Damn guys like that make it hard for the good ol boys!!

bl8ant, I'll keep Amsterdam in mind!

shutter, good luck on your next purchase!!

Perhaps if anything untoward was to happen on a date again Joyce, you could 'remind' your date of his manners, with a knee, or an elbow.

Self defense classes are a smart investment, for a smart woman.

im bored.
-_-

think that woukld be a good investment Jess

Hiya Jess , self defence classes shouldn't be needed to kick a dude in da balls.

I think TxMama photo is a good pic for attracting a nice guy. Feminine but not too revealing. Showing cleveage, midrift, or butt cheeks in photos open to any guy who wants to get a buzz and kind of lowers any guys inhibitions. You can always add the play clothes shots in personal exchanges after meeting but if it is part of what a guy has to see to be interested he is stuck on leering. I can not say it clear enough to NEVER allow photos to be taken or shared that you would not want your kids to see because I promise you sooner or later they will.

Self defense classes aren't only for 'reminding' men how to behave, Nerves..

They also empower a woman to be able to manage herself around less than honourable people, in any circumstance...

Confidence and capacity to protect oneself is not just about kicking people in the cods...

Joyce is a small woman, and a larger man may be able to place her in a rather uncomfortable situation..

As with many women in the dating game, one needs to have their personal safety at the fore-front at all times.

I'm sorry to hear that this has happened to you
I'm just glad that you weren't hurt
take care of yourself

hey wait a minute... i was born in amsterdam ... and i'm half dutch...

i'm a gentleman dag nabbit and don't you 32%#$%%$$#$ forget it people!!!!!!

:D

Maybe you could teach me a few moves Jess??


Ya'll killin me, I got to go! Good night!!

I know for a fact that trying to knee a guy in the privates is a good way for a woman to get a beating that you might never recover from. It is a good idea to take a self defense class but if you ever have the option to just get the most distance possible between you and a man who won't take no for an answer you are wise to do it at first whiff that is the situation. To Hel- with hurting a bully's feelings or being embarrassed or over reacting. You were really pretty luck this guy didn't rape you. He probably will another woman. I would stay as far away from him as possible.

It's amazing what a sweet smile and a firm grip that gets tighter, as you say "Back off now' will do...and I also know first hand it is affective..

Joyce...

Chalk it up as the guy was a JERK. If he was nicer you probably would have seen him again. Men like that...I would think must find it very hard to get a 2nd date

I JUST SKEER EM OFF in the beginning!!!