Wow bl8ant, you definitely have an interesting perspective.
Sounds like you are saying that nurjoyce had all the warning she needed. She just either didn't pay attention to it because she is blinded by hope?
Pretended it wasn't there because she is a hopeless romantic?
Saw it, knew it, and wanted to send a guy home with blue balls just for giggles.
What are the other possibilities? I checked out her profile. Of course not seeing the emails is where the sticky lives...but in the end - even if her emails were like "Ooooh baby I want you to grab me and kiss me and nibble my lip till it hurts"...Even I would do a sanity check in person befoore I attempted to execute that manuever....

Wait a minute! bl8ant! Are you the dude she went out with? Did you like bite her lip and tell her that she has to give you some ass grabbin bear hug before she knows if she does or does not want you?

With that kind of logic, every man should suck a **** to be sure that he's not a closet homosexual!

Sorry for the vivid images gang...Sorry bl8ant for accusing you. Just me stirring the pot. Maybe nurjoyce does need to slow it down a bit.

Nurjoyce, reshoot you profile pictures wearing full on cold weather parka and ski pants. See if that helps the quality of your email interests!

nurjoyce, can I nibble your ear?

bl8ant, are ther no men in Amsterdam??

If not, I'm moving!!!

what are you the new dr phil!!!????

lol nerves gone....c'mon then with your cute self..... but it's cooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooold here now!!!

ROTF MAO

and plus we sisters need to slap each other sometimes when we do stupid chit.....and Nurjoyce is a very smart cookie so i am wonderin WHAT WAS SHE THINKIN!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sometimes I wonder if it's the ones who make a good impression on the phone that you have to be careful of. I met this lady last night from around here. We had dinner. But she went into immediately telling me she needed money from me without even offering me any kind of relationship. I had to let that one go because money is not something I give to strangers who aren't offering me anything in return.

I did not meet this guy on JSH

but anyway--- gives me another topic
why is a woman fault if she dresses sexy and a man grabs her?
and I tell guys...my picture is misleading, although I dress that way-- I am shy, I am old fashioned, I am inexperienced, I am not after sex, if I wanted just sex I could get it would not have to be on a dating site.

I like cold weather, cool tonight, 40's I think. I'm sure it's colder there! Good snuggling weather!!

bi8ant--you know you can slap me anytime (just don't bite j/k)
and I welcome a good discussion from a strong, intelligent woman as yourself.

OMLOG!!!!!!

this is almost sounding like a .....dum da dum dum..... shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh










a possibile date!!!!!!!!!

Damn shutter I don't give money when I do get a return!!!!

Nurjoyce...i just get pissed off when the good ones get crapped on by those old hound dogs


it's my twisted way of saying YOU DESERVE BETTER!!

thank you---
I appreciate it!!!!

Well scary situation but any woman who dates very much will run across this kind of jerk sooner or later. Does make the case for always meeting in a public place that you can get into a little proximity but them ditch him if he acts too aggressively. Any guy who can't pick up on resistence and chill is defintely one to get away from fast. Earlier posts that suggest watching for clues is probably on target because usually this behavior is preceeded by other high pressure tacts like demanding pictures, personal emails, multiple phone calls, do you have a boyfriend ?'s. I am a very tactile person but anyone who jumps in my personal space with out invitation gets the freeze out real fast. You seem like a nice girl with the athletic body to wear the sporty little number but I don't know if it would be my first recommendation for a date site because it open to interprtation to those poor souls that are sooooh desperate they see it as an invitation for grab and grope. You have to think like a man or shall I say some of the juvenile boys that sometime masquerade as men.

pick up on clues.....
i came out and said whoa..you are moving way too fast.

sorry to hear you had such a bad date i hope the next one goes alot better for you

all a part of dating
that is why i hate being single