My View:

'True love' is a super-set and 'being in bed' is a sub-set (much as 'Mammal' is a super-set and 'human-being' being a sub-set). 'True love' was there in this world; is there; And will always be there. True love, never 'dies'; Never 'vanishes'. It might be a different story altogether, if someone, by stroke of 'sheer' misfortune, didn't find 'true love' in her/his life. 'Not finding' something, doesn't necessarily indicate its 'absence'. Does it? What, if I were to say something like: 'Absence Of Evidence', doesn't necessarily signify the 'Evidence Of Absence'!


And as for that 'super-set & sub-set' part; well: 'Having Sex' is ONLY a part of 'True love' - I mean it's very natural on the part of 'true lovers' to 'be in bed with each other'


Finally, 'being in bed with different partners at different phases', well: this is a pretty common issue (happening all around the globe, I guess); Nothing much worth mentioning regarding this; excepting for the fact that although such a happening is widely prevalent all around the world, it DOES NOT (and 'should not') necessitate one to infer that 'true love' is dying... I don't think so!

There are 'still' men & women (of varying ages), who are 'loyal' to each other; and they 'still' look at the very same direction, in unison (instead of gazing at each other's eyes, for prolonged hours), 'come what may'!


So 'Aditya', you shouldn't feel 'demoralized' from the 'very misconception' that 'true love' is vanishing. If you haven't found 'your' true love yet, don't lose heart. What I understand from your profile, is that, you are 'only' "21" years of age (and from an Indian context: 'You are yet to begin your life')!

So, focus on your 'career' right now; and 'GOD-WILLING', 'true love' will follow you, in due time (at the moment 'destined' for you).


Good Luck. Stay Happy & Keep Smiling!

'Lynn', I admit that you are simply 'Fantabulous' (Fantastic + Fabulous)

Yeah ashar.. U think we r donkey.. Buts its like that we don't waste time in love n dat bla.. Bla. We try to just hav fun wid our main aim to try n focus at our main job..

it's true he did a thread and only put those 4 words on.so needn't make out we are the ones who are stupid lol.

Gawd, it sounds like you work for Corleone.

For fun sake, I will date a newbie & the next day, they've become matured / wiser in bed. Cheers mate!

I 'know'! I viewed those posts yesterday.

i didnt post anything yesterday lynn

no ... i m not calling u a donkey ... ur illusion is like a donkey ... every generation goes thru a type of illusion ... like drugs in 60s, money later ... so on .. other illusions r better than this ego trip

well if it wasn't u I apologise but by hell u got a twin brother then on here

OMG!

what's with this next day stuff..lol..
try same day... ... chop chop times tickin.... this generation is... time is money..... better yet don't waste time.... get right to the meat of the matter.. so to speak..

I can't understand some of the sentences. The way you spell words. Maybe that's the way you spell things though, in your part of the country.

do you really like this set-up ??

Heh