At 21, what exactly, qualifies you
to tell other people how they
have to think?

Aditya - 'A word of ADVICE for you'

From my experiences in the 'recent' past, I have observed that people of 'English speaking Nations' feel comfortable in 'reading & writing' proper English, even if it's 'Internet Chat' sessions. There may occur 'grammatical mistakes' but as we all know the paradigm 'To Err, Is Human'; Still, 'they' prefer to interact in 'proper' well laid out 'English'. I hope 'you' are getting my 'point'!


I would suggest you to write 'proper' English (your sentences needn't be long); but do 'AVOID' writing SMS language here. I'm sure that you will certainly receive more responses that might prove to be valuable for you, at some phase in your life.


Trust me, 'communique' in 'proper English' has its own 'charm'. Try it out. You won't be disappointed!


Good Luck!

I read at some point there are over 300 languages & dialects in India. So each person knows approximately 3. Very difficult if English is the 3rd one.
Next to Mandarin I think English is the most complex.

I read at some point there are over 300 languages & dialects in India. So each person knows approximately 3. Very difficult if English is the 3rd one.
Next to Mandarin I think English is the most complex.

Its true its being a trend now... True love has just vanished.. Its only a excitd for newbies at love.. But matured ones know what is lov about.. Pick a one.. Date her/him next day..and the next day he/she in on ur bed.. N dis thing is excitin n enjoyin one... What u all think.. Com n debate on dis

U might think otherwise.. But at some specific stage of life u also hav think lyk dis..

Thanks for dat I will try to communicate in propr english

Thank you for 'that' piece of information, Sassy! To be 'honest' with you, I wasn't aware of those facts, being an 'Indian' by origin, myself.

However, what I suggested to 'him', probably doesn't fall in 'line' with what you 'enlightened' me upon, probably because, to 'him', English isn't difficult (or 'complex' for that matter).

I mean, someone who types:

'dis' knows that word to be 'this'
'lyk' knows that word to be 'like'
'dat' knows that word to be 'that'
'mnnr' knows that word to be 'manner'

It wasn't out of 'ignorance' that 'he' was typing 'that' way; he chose to implement that approach as his 'style', probably thinking that it's 'modernization' or more appropriately 'westernization'

I (myself) suffered from 'such' delusion, in the past. 'Time' has helped me learn the truth, and that is: Western culture DOESN'T appreciate such 'mutilation' of the noble columns of 'English Language'. 'They' prefer to write in 'full' and well laid-out sentences.

I might be mistaken in my point of view; but that's what I feel & advised 'him' in the process. Nothing 'personal'. Each one is 'free' to follow 'her/his' will.


Thank You (for having the 'patience' to read this).

You have made some very good points. I have a 28 yrs old niece that types in text language to me. Which doesn't save time ...if I have to keep asking for her to explain. It drives me crazy & I lose interest. Then she assumes I don't care. So it may be generational as well.

You have made some very good points. I have a 28 yrs old niece that types in text language to me. Which doesn't save time ...if I have to keep asking for her to explain. It drives me crazy & I loose interest. Then she assumes I don't care. So it may be generational as well.

Well I don't drink or party every weekend...I also don't sleep around. I have high standards. Yes, we still do exist.

Yeah text language is a good option when I talk some personal wid sm1 but its in public I should be clear in my words.. Thanks.. All of you for your nice comments

feel sorry for ur generation .... u guys r riding a donkey of an illusion ...