Well i was left with all the responsibilty raising my children by
myself. Just with that damn little child support that the dad gave to
them. Had too work hard to raised them alone

i know that, i was raised by a single mom. he started it off with yes
they should pay and then went on to say how it takes two people to have
sex and make a child and that more people need to realize that they need
to be responsible because even if it doesn't work out, you still have to
raise the kid. i think his point was that too many people have sex
without thinking about the consequences. if more people thought about
their consequences early on we wouldn't have alot of single parents. i
seriously don't think he was blaming one or the other, he just didn't
get it across real clear.

Well tell it to my kids dad, because next week i going to court too
fight for my kids because he pisst at me for asking for increase ono the
child support. which stated every three year a mother could modified
her child support case.

Obviously, I'm very passionate on the subject...

I'll buy that KB, but that statement was bias, and extremely sexist,
unintelligent and misinformed. That I will will never buy...I see that
attitude far to often in my line of work AND if there is a dead beat
parent I can help to locate...I'm there and have many times given their
information, according to law, to the proper institutions. I also am the
acting human resources person and it's part of my job and I do it with
pride!

J

i know you are passionate about it and there ain't a problem with that.
i just don't think that he intended it the way that you took it and i
didn't want to see you get all worked up over nothing. i'm gonna stay
out of it.

I'm done as well, but in closing, I would like to say, if some of you
had the opportunity to see the things I have seen with regards to
accepting the resonsilibilty of child rearing it would be an eyeopener
for you. This sort of attitude is present in many divorce cases as
well...I have witnessed men make well in excess of 100k a year, get
divorced and want to skip on support. Please!

No doubt more care should be made in seeing that an unwanted pregnancy
does not result from a moment of heated passion - that my friends is the
responsilibilty of both consenting adults. Enough said.

J

I am sorry that you took me wrong miss jane. I simply ment that there
are alot of guys out there that would jump into bed with any girl that
would give them the time of day. That being the case, then it's the
woman that decides that it's time for bed. Again I am sorry, for your
misunderstanding, and my lack of clarity. I hope that this explains what
I ment a little better.