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Topic: Is there a good woman?
davidhughes Joined Tue 04/21/15 Posts: 2	Tue 04/21/15 04:36 AM
I have been hurt and now lost trust in woman

lynnleeds Joined Thu 05/02/13 Posts: 3491	Tue 04/21/15 04:46 AM
cant tar em all with the same brush men or women.we all get hurt.the thing is u need to deal with it before u can move on sorta grieve for what u lost then recovery starts and u emerge a bit wiser and stronger.good luck

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 04/21/15 05:27 AM
certainly there are men who have also behaved in an untrustworthy manner that you have knowledge of? there are plenty of women who have problems trusting men because of the way a past partner has behaved (sometimes several past partners). It has more to do with whether a person as an individual is trustworthy and their demographic. (Are they culturally inclined to value monogamy, are they too young for you? Do you have the same ideas about a relationship) let it be a learning experience :)

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Tue 04/21/15 05:55 AM
hmmmmm could you define the parameters of what constitutes good? maybe put it in list format or bullet points? thanks will check back later

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 04/21/15 06:57 AM
yes mommy dearest..

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33340	Tue 04/21/15 07:04 AM Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Tue 04/21/15 07:05 AM
We all been hurt .. It's up to you to restore trust and confidence etc etc .. By analyzing and thinking about what happened, what your part was in it and what you can learn from it. You can either go through life not opening up anymore and not trusting anyone or you can work through what happened so you can commit again with a happy heart and grant another woman your trust (and not hurt her). The choice is yours to make I for one wouldn't want a man who can't trust a woman... and I don't think any so called good woman would... So it's in your own benefit to work through your problems if you want to find love again.

Justfun_1 Joined Tue 07/23/13 Posts: 698	Tue 04/21/15 07:15 AM
I can understand losing trust in a woman,but in women ? I had some friends telling me that women are all the same after the break up with my ex,but when i asked if that meant that men were all the same too,they were lost for words.It can seem easier to generalize and let bitterness take over,but then you are the long term loser when looking for happiness...

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33340	Tue 04/21/15 07:18 AM
I can understand losing trust in a woman,but in women ? I had some friends telling me that women are all the same after the break up with my ex,but when i asked if that meant that men were all the same too,they were lost for words.It can seem easier to generalize and let bitterness take over,but then you are the long term loser when looking for happiness... Yep Hiya (((Justfun)))

SassyEuro Joined Wed 03/11/15 Posts: 1000	Tue 04/21/15 07:18 AM
I have been hurt and now lost trust in woman Then you need a break to work on that & are not ready to resume dating.

tealbreeze Joined Sun 02/08/15 Posts: 2279	Tue 04/21/15 07:24 AM Edited by tealbreeze on Tue 04/21/15 07:33 AM
I find profiles that begin with "I am so n so by name" and have "god fearing" wrote into their profiles or messages are multiple alternate scammer fakes. So I do believe this thread is totally insincere.

Justfun_1 Joined Tue 07/23/13 Posts: 698	Tue 04/21/15 07:24 AM
I can understand losing trust in a woman,but in women ? I had some friends telling me that women are all the same after the break up with my ex,but when i asked if that meant that men were all the same too,they were lost for words.It can seem easier to generalize and let bitterness take over,but then you are the long term loser when looking for happiness... Yep Hiya (((Justfun))) Hi ((Crystal))

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Tue 04/21/15 07:37 AM
yes mommy dearest.. Lord man what is it with you and mothers

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Tue 04/21/15 07:37 AM Edited by TMommy on Tue 04/21/15 07:38 AM
@#$&^%*** double post

SassyEuro Joined Wed 03/11/15 Posts: 1000	Tue 04/21/15 07:40 AM
I find profiles that begin with "I am so n so by name" and have "god fearing" wrote into their profiles or messages are multiple alternate scammer fakes. So I do believe this thread is totally insincere. I love it when you say what I'm thinking... so I don't have to.

tealbreeze Joined Sun 02/08/15 Posts: 2279	Tue 04/21/15 07:42 AM
I find profiles that begin with "I am so n so by name" and have "god fearing" wrote into their profiles or messages are multiple alternate scammer fakes. So I do believe this thread is totally insincere. I love it when you say what I'm thinking... so I don't have to. Bait thread.

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Tue 04/21/15 07:51 AM
I find profiles that begin with "I am so n so by name" and have "god fearing" wrote into their profiles or messages are multiple alternate scammer fakes. So I do believe this thread is totally insincere. he wants a god loving and a god fearing woman... and he's in the USA army... quite the catch ladies, but only if you fear loving god...

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Tue 04/21/15 07:54 AM
damn guess we will never know what was on that list that makes up a good woman

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 04/21/15 08:08 AM
I have been hurt and now lost trust in woman Don't worry. I'll pick up your slack.

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Tue 04/21/15 08:12 AM
People are big, mean, poopy heads.

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Tue 04/21/15 08:18 AM
People are big, mean, poopy heads. sheesh...big baby