I must say, I had to chuckle at a couple of the post here. Every person has his or her own idea of what a good man/woman is. It can be difficult to get past the betrayal/s of a Significant Other. I am in that boat, and really wondering why I am on this site at all. Good luck.

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<~~~~~~~~~~~doesn't believe you read the thread.

Bait or not, y'all can have the good ones. I want a Bad Girlfriend!

I am still waiting for the list so I can figure out if I am a [good orbad one...

yes I would like to see the entire spectrum to see where I fall on it

1. being afraid to sleep at night in fear you may lose a body part


all way up to Mother Theresa maybe

Yeah I am going to have to ask this one of Pancho and see what he says..
could be interesting...

Buckcherry~Crazy B

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Dang it
hate that when it happens
we were just starting to have fun

lol

People on both sides of the fence have been hurt & lost trust. Sorry for your troubles.

I was only going to put in the basic psych lesson relating to this:

When you find yourself saying you lost faith in a whole class of people, what that translates to is, that you lost faith in yourself; in your ability to perceive what those people are actually about, rather than what you fantasize they are about.

The evil wimmins done skeeeered him away.

I agree. Many men have some idiotic nerves to state they want marriage, but when they realize that you are the real thing and not easy, these fake liars disappear. If they know you are marriage material, the type of mam they can bring home to mama, and that you have good family morals rules of #1 Get to know each other, friends, and courtship first and #2 NO sex before the LEGAL Wedding day around friends and family.....Watch them suckers vanish like a GHOST! You wont hear from them again! Because in reality, they don't want a wife or decent female to establish a decent relationship with. They want easy whores they can use for sex then dump to move on to their next victim!