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Hookups and real relationships should not be batched together. One should be a commitment and the other is clearly not! If either cheat during an established relationship, the time gap on when to confess is immaterial! Cheating is cheating and if either is too immature to keep cheating, they are not ready for a real, committed relationship, obviously.
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When a person defines a relationship as lite/easy/no strings then it is highly unlikely that the relationship is EVER going to be anything else. You set the value low it is unlikely to appreciate; or inflate; in any good way at least. To have heartburn because you get disappointed that someone lived down to "low standards" agreed to is like crying that the dog ate your sandwich you left on the coffee table. A dog is going to be a dog. Apology or confession that your a dog still makes you a dog. If you sleep with a dog you should at least expect fleas. Younger women that think they can pretend to be casual about their self respect and probable responsibilities should not be surprised when the get stuck with the puppies of whatever hound dog they messed around with while he is long gone. I guess since the guy is the dog, and because she was doing the same exact thing that would mean she is a dog(the female version) as well, who knows maybe she gave him fleas 
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When a person defines a relationship as lite/easy/no strings then it is highly unlikely that the relationship is EVER going to be anything else. You set the value low it is unlikely to appreciate; or inflate; in any good way at least. To have heartburn because you get disappointed that someone lived down to "low standards" agreed to is like crying that the dog ate your sandwich you left on the coffee table. A dog is going to be a dog. Apology or confession that your a dog still makes you a dog. If you sleep with a dog you should at least expect fleas. Younger women that think they can pretend to be casual about their self respect and probable responsibilities should not be surprised when the get stuck with the puppies of whatever hound dog they messed around with while he is long gone. hey hey hey don't tlk about me like im not here.watch your mouth! I guess since the guy is the dog, and because she was doing the same exact thing that would mean she is a dog(the female version) as well, who knows maybe she gave him fleas
" hey hey hey don't talk about me like I'm not here. watch you mouth!" We know you are here, you made the thread for everyone, & you put all your business out there.
The lady used a MEAPHOR for ALL young women. * Medaphor- 1- a phrase or image which is applied to an object or action & is not literally applicable . 2-To compare to unlike objects. 3-- A word or phrase used to express that one object is similar to another. 4- An object, (symbol, word, phrase) or idea used as a symbol for something else. |
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I wouldn't mind meeting with someone for first date and hitting it off.the second one would be even better..one could only hope this could happen..js
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I do not take putting out a premise about a situation as a confession of how a person may or may not conduct their personal life. My labeling behaviors is not labeling the OP or anyone else where the shoe does not fit.
If a person gets confused or manipulated to believe something that isn't true that is truly unfair. But nobody says life is fair and if you are dry enough behind the ears to be on this site, 18+, it is time to see things are not Barbie and Ken and nothing bad is going to happen if you roll around the sheets together like you are a couple of dolls with no feelings or consequences. Common sense must applies in adult life activities or the likely hood for misery is great. Adult relationships are not about just fun and games. Things like courtesy, respect, responsibility, and consequences have to be factored in. You can like some one and think they are fun but you jump into sex with out understandings that have been proved by other information and actions then you are lying to yourself as much as letting the other person lie to you. Or you are lying to them. |
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Beautifully said..
But the Barbie & Ken analogy with plastic... just brilliant! 
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If your mate confessed to cheating the first week of your relationship, would you considered that cheating?
If they labeled it cheating...then yes, I would consider it cheating. They used the term . Who am I to contradict what they believe they did. If someone behaved in a matter that I personally, and subjectively, consider and define as "cheating," then I would consider that cheating. Other than that I believe any relationship begins when you say "hello" to someone, and then continue talking and dating them. I don't know how you define it. So if you are asking "if the person you've been in a relationship with for a week slept with someone else and then confessed to it, would you consider it cheating?" Then I'd say it doesn't really matter what I "consider" it, what matters is what I'd do in the face of that information. And it would take a lot more information than is available in the OP to determine what I'd do. |
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If your mate confessed to cheating the first week of your relationship, would you considered that cheating?
If they labeled it cheating...then yes, I would consider it cheating. They used the term . Who am I to contradict what they believe they did. If someone behaved in a matter that I personally, and subjectively, consider and define as "cheating," then I would consider that cheating. Other than that I believe any relationship begins when you say "hello" to someone, and then continue talking and dating them. I don't know how you define it. So if you are asking "if the person you've been in a relationship with for a week slept with someone else and then confessed to it, would you consider it cheating?" Then I'd say it doesn't really matter what I "consider" it, what matters is what I'd do in the face of that information. And it would take a lot more information than is available in the OP to determine what I'd do. hello! (You better update your profile to taken now!) because according to the above we are now apparently in relationship 
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time for social skills training so you know what you are doing before you do it and are in agreement with the other person when you do...
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Metaphor is the correct word and spelling
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