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Topic: How can you tell?
unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Wed 04/15/15 08:38 AM
How can you tell if a woman is interested in you coz i can't. It usually seems they're just being friendly or just curious & nothing more. This goes for both in real life & online. so....how can you tell?

tealbreeze Joined Sun 02/08/15 Posts: 2279	Wed 04/15/15 08:40 AM Edited by tealbreeze on Wed 04/15/15 08:41 AM
on initial sighting? eye contact, perving?

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33339	Wed 04/15/15 08:42 AM
Exactly what dating experts say... men don't notice subtle signals and that's what women usually do. We (other women) do understand them and notice them.. So we have to be blatantly obvious, which to most women can be quite scary. Not sure about your answer, I'm hungry. My brain don't work on an empty stomach.. Even Angels need to eat

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Wed 04/15/15 08:45 AM
on initial sighting? eye contact, perving? Not convincing enough for me tho

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Wed 04/15/15 08:47 AM
Exactly what dating experts say... men don't notice subtle signals and that's what women usually do. We (other women) do understand them and notice them.. So we have to be blatantly obvious, which to most women can be quite scary. Not sure about your answer, I'm hungry. My brain don't work on an empty stomach.. Even Angels need to eat Would those subtle signals be smiling & touching their hair & stuff coz every woman does that so no big deal there....or are there other subtle signals?

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Wed 04/15/15 08:48 AM
You can't tell. You have to engage. Ask her out. If she says yes, she is interested.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33339	Wed 04/15/15 08:48 AM
apparently it takes at least 3x looking at a guy for him to register you're looking at HIM and not at the clock on the wall or the barkeep behind him or ... or... And you have to look at him for at least 5 secs, 10 is better (effing eternity!!!!) and smile. Great. 3 frigging times?? Of course you can also bump into him, spill your drink over him and overzealously wipe him clean... Might not go down too well though if he's wearing his best shirt, lol

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Wed 04/15/15 08:50 AM
^ Or hit him over the head with a sledgehammer. Best success rate.

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Wed 04/15/15 08:51 AM
How can you tell if a woman is interested in you coz i can't. It usually seems they're just being friendly or just curious & nothing more. This goes for both in real life & online. so....how can you tell? If she's standing there with her muffin munching the carpet Romeo, it usually means that she's up for the cup mate? ha ha

tealbreeze Joined Sun 02/08/15 Posts: 2279	Wed 04/15/15 08:51 AM
apparently it takes at least 3x looking at a guy for him to register you're looking at HIM and not at the clock on the wall or the barkeep behind him or ... or... And you have to look at him for at least 5 secs, 10 is better (effing eternity!!!!) and smile. Great. 3 frigging times?? Of course you can also bump into him, spill your drink over him and overzealously wipe him clean... Might not go down too well though if he's wearing his best shirt, lol Yep. I'm subtle that way. Always ask for the bar keepers bar rag.

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Wed 04/15/15 08:53 AM
You can't tell. You have to engage. Ask her out. If she says yes, she is interested. But i can't ask her out until i'm sure

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Wed 04/15/15 08:54 AM
OMG! Why not? Afraid of rejection?

tealbreeze Joined Sun 02/08/15 Posts: 2279	Wed 04/15/15 08:54 AM
You can't tell. You have to engage. Ask her out. If she says yes, she is interested. But i can't ask her out until i'm sure If you don't talk to her when she looks at you, she will give up and think that you are not interested.

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Wed 04/15/15 08:59 AM
apparently it takes at least 3x looking at a guy for him to register you're looking at HIM Here's the other thing....i don't really stare at women in real life or look at them for more then 2 seconds....unless i'm having a conversation with her....it's a lil shyness i have.....so even if she does look at me i wouldn't have noticed coz i never really looked at her

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Wed 04/15/15 08:59 AM
How can you tell if a woman is interested in you coz i can't. It usually seems they're just being friendly or just curious & nothing more. This goes for both in real life & online. so....how can you tell? If she's standing there with her muffin munching the carpet Romeo, it usually means that she's up for the cup mate? ha ha

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Wed 04/15/15 09:00 AM
You want me to ask her for you?

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Wed 04/15/15 09:04 AM
^ Or hit him over the head with a sledgehammer. Best success rate. good idea here. so tell her to dope slap him, then ask him when he's going to ask her out

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Wed 04/15/15 09:06 AM
OMG! Why not? Afraid of rejection? Not really rejection. It takes a lot for me to like someone enough to ask her out, & with that in mind it would be nice if it was mutual attraction & if Its not there i wouldn't ask her out.....

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Wed 04/15/15 09:08 AM
You want me to ask her for you?

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Wed 04/15/15 09:20 AM
How can you tell if a woman is interested in you coz i can't. It usually seems they're just being friendly or just curious & nothing more. This goes for both in real life & online. so....how can you tell? A woman is interested if she starts calling you "baby".....