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I don't have much money to take someone out on a date. I however am an excellent cook and I own a huge 60" tv and I have over 1000 HD movies. I only rent a room and my tv and such are in my room. I feel a girl should love me for who I am and not for my income, but it is hard for me to overlook. If I suggest a date at my place with a gourmet dinner and a movie how would a woman react to such a suggestion? And does anyone have any other ideas for a date? I have checked kijiji and I do find free events from time to time which are nice like free sailing lessons. But those are not as frequent as I would like to count on for date locations. I am creative, but I do need some help on ideas.
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That might work when you've been on several dates. Going to a man's place on the first date is inviting trouble.
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His income may be very low today but in as much a man is not lazy,a time is coming when God will enlarge his cot.... Love without string attached is all what u need man
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The OP didn't say anything about a family, he's talking about a first date idea.
Good to know the key thing that obviously "some" women are looking for first, before the quality of the guy at hand.  With that said, I will agree that a first date back at guy's place is inviting trouble for said woman/man.  I would suggest using your cooking skills and prepare a picnic. It's a way to show your cooking skill, without being creepy. At least I think.... 
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I was not meaning an attack on anyone. I simply was implying the OP's sentiments about a woman liking or loving him for who he is, not his income.
I apologize if offense was taken.  Another possible idea if you're willing, would be a school carnival, or a church potluck. 
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Wow.. everyone is different & at a different place in life.
Just as some men are thought of & accursed of ' thinking only with their penis' ( wanting young & attractive) Some women are accused of thinking in terms of money & property. Women- the bearers of children- should be thinking about a man's financial status if she ever wants a family. And she has the right to choose financial security for herself : children or future children. And to live a lifestyle she is accustomed or desires. Men- have the right to seek women they are attracted too,for whatever reason. |
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I don't have much money to take someone out on a date. I however am an excellent cook and I own a huge 60" tv and I have over 1000 HD movies. I only rent a room and my tv and such are in my room. I feel a girl should love me for who I am and not for my income, but it is hard for me to overlook. If I suggest a date at my place with a gourmet dinner and a movie how would a woman react to such a suggestion? And does anyone have any other ideas for a date? I have checked kijiji and I do find free events from time to time which are nice like free sailing lessons. But those are not as frequent as I would like to count on for date locations. I am creative, but I do need some help on ideas. The guys had a great idea, with a picnic at the park,or coffee date.;))))  
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alright I will chime in my two cents on this
when you are say young 18-24 and in college and broke and you want to go on a date I think it's just kinda understood that no one has a lot of money so you come up with creative things to do walk in park, maybe cook some hot dogs, marshmellows push her on the swing, talk, laugh when you are older and darling I am older it depends...if a man has recently gone through a divorce and is paying alimony, child support and his spouse got the house then you must take that into consideration but if he is say 45 and at this point has been working since 18 but yet has nothing to show for it? that might raise a few eyebrows on where he has been spending his money or why he is living in a van down by the river
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Yes,something else women have to consider. If a guy is paying alimony & child support & has a lot of debt. If a woman marries a guy with these financial issues, she then becomes last on his list ( in many ways) & in many cases becomes legally responsible for his debt. |
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Hy I'm newbie
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I don't have much money to take someone out on a date. I however am an excellent cook and I own a huge 60" tv and I have over 1000 HD movies. I only rent a room and my tv and such are in my room. I feel a girl should love me for who I am and not for my income, but it is hard for me to overlook. If I suggest a date at my place with a gourmet dinner and a movie how would a woman react to such a suggestion? And does anyone have any other ideas for a date? I have checked kijiji and I do find free events from time to time which are nice like free sailing lessons. But those are not as frequent as I would like to count on for date locations. I am creative, but I do need some help on ideas. believe it or not one of the nicest low dollar first dates that will usually go over well is a museum or and art gallery. nice dress is acceptable and you actually get to talk and learn about each other and what your looking at provides cover for those awkward silences  |
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I don't have much money to take someone out on a date. I however am an excellent cook and I own a huge 60" tv and I have over 1000 HD movies. I only rent a room and my tv and such are in my room. I feel a girl should love me for who I am and not for my income, but it is hard for me to overlook. If I suggest a date at my place with a gourmet dinner and a movie how would a woman react to such a suggestion? And does anyone have any other ideas for a date? I have checked kijiji and I do find free events from time to time which are nice like free sailing lessons. But those are not as frequent as I would like to count on for date locations. I am creative, but I do need some help on ideas. Would it not depend on the type of woman you are going out with? Put a creative twist on something of her interests... Nature, culture, food, animals, hobbies? There are lots things you can do together that doesnt need big bucks. |
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Edited for off-topic.
This is a discussion, it is NOT about YOU. soufie Site Moderator |
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I don't have much money to take someone out on a date. I however am an excellent cook and I own a huge 60" tv and I have over 1000 HD movies. I only rent a room and my tv and such are in my room. I feel a girl should love me for who I am and not for my income, but it is hard for me to overlook. If I suggest a date at my place with a gourmet dinner and a movie how would a woman react to such a suggestion? And does anyone have any other ideas for a date? I have checked kijiji and I do find free events from time to time which are nice like free sailing lessons. But those are not as frequent as I would like to count on for date locations. I am creative, but I do need some help on ideas. Heck,what about going Dutch? 
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Wow.. everyone is different & at a different place in life. Just as some men are thought of & accursed of ' thinking only with their penis' ( wanting young & attractive) Some women are accused of thinking in terms of money & property. Women- the bearers of children- should bethinking about a man's financial status if she ever wants a family. And she has the right to choose financial security for herself : children or future children. And to live a lifestyle she is accustomed or desires. thats just fine and dandie if your younger and want moor kids,but miny of us dont.so if your older is money the NO1 thing on your list? |
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alright I will chime in my two cents on this when you are say young 18-24 and in college and broke and you want to go on a date I think it's just kinda understood that no one has a lot of money so you come up with creative things to do walk in park, maybe cook some hot dogs, marshmellows push her on the swing, talk, laugh when you are older and darling I am older it depends...if a man has recently gone through a divorce and is paying alimony, child support and his spouse got the house then you must take that into consideration but if he is say 45 and at this point has been working since 18 but yet has nothing to show for it? that might raise a few eyebrows on where he has been spending his money or why he is living in a van down by the river |
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alright I will chime in my two cents on this when you are say young 18-24 and in college and broke and you want to go on a date I think it's just kinda understood that no one has a lot of money so you come up with creative things to do walk in park, maybe cook some hot dogs, marshmellows push her on the swing, talk, laugh when you are older and darling I am older it depends...if a man has recently gone through a divorce and is paying alimony, child support and his spouse got the house then you must take that into consideration but if he is say 45 and at this point has been working since 18 but yet has nothing to show for it? that might raise a few eyebrows on where he has been spending his money or why he is living in a van down by the river 
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I don't have much money to take someone out on a date. I however am an excellent cook and I own a huge 60" tv and I have over 1000 HD movies. I only rent a room and my tv and such are in my room. I feel a girl should love me for who I am and not for my income, but it is hard for me to overlook. If I suggest a date at my place with a gourmet dinner and a movie how would a woman react to such a suggestion? And does anyone have any other ideas for a date? I have checked kijiji and I do find free events from time to time which are nice like free sailing lessons. But those are not as frequent as I would like to count on for date locations. I am creative, but I do need some help on ideas. believe it or not one of the nicest low dollar first dates that will usually go over well is a museum or and art gallery. nice dress is acceptable and you actually get to talk and learn about each other and what your looking at provides cover for those awkward silences Picnic's, parks, I also have to agree I would never go to the guys house for a first date that just isn't a safe idea for anyone involved |
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thanks rains sometimes even us neanderthals have a few bright ideas
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alright I will chime in my two cents on this when you are say young 18-24 and in college and broke and you want to go on a date I think it's just kinda understood that no one has a lot of money so you come up with creative things to do walk in park, maybe cook some hot dogs, marshmellows push her on the swing, talk, laugh when you are older and darling I am older it depends...if a man has recently gone through a divorce and is paying alimony, child support and his spouse got the house then you must take that into consideration but if he is say 45 and at this point has been working since 18 but yet has nothing to show for it? that might raise a few eyebrows on where he has been spending his money or why he is living in a van down by the river [/quoteLOL,IKR |
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