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Topic: First date Ideas
Annierooroo's photo
Mon 04/13/15 01:43 PM
Getting a coffee through drive through parking up with a beautiful veiw and talking about random stuff. Getting to know each other.
(Tip, if you like her makes sure its a large one)
What ever you do even though your nervous have fun. Laugh. That is what you will remember not what you ate or drank.
Be happy. :smile:

no photo
Mon 04/13/15 02:27 PM


Wow.. everyone is different & at a different place in life.

Just as some men are thought of & accursed of ' thinking only with their penis' ( wanting young & attractive) Some women are accused of thinking in terms of money & property.

Women- the bearers of children- should bethinking about a man's financial status if she ever wants a family. And she has the right to choose financial security for herself : children or future children. And to live a lifestyle she is accustomed or desires.

thats just fine and dandie if your younger and want moor kids,but miny of us dont.so if your older is money the NO1 thing on your list?


Money never was NO1 on my list.
But WAS far more important with 'minor children' involved.

A this stage of my life:
Does he have debt?
Does he have grown children/ grandchildren at home & supporting.?
Still paying alimony.?

Are we compatible (main thing)?
Is he crazy?
Is he looking for a nurse?
Does he have erectile dysfunction?
:banana:

no photo
Mon 04/13/15 02:31 PM

I don't have much money to take someone out on a date. I however am an excellent cook and I own a huge 60" tv and I have over 1000 HD movies. I only rent a room and my tv and such are in my room. I feel a girl should love me for who I am and not for my income, but it is hard for me to overlook. If I suggest a date at my place with a gourmet dinner and a movie how would a woman react to such a suggestion? And does anyone have any other ideas for a date? I have checked kijiji and I do find free events from time to time which are nice like free sailing lessons. But those are not as frequent as I would like to count on for date locations. I am creative, but I do need some help on ideas.


My favorite date with my ex husband was what we called ' A date with the sun '. We would meet before sunrise or sunset, but coffee & cake ' & eat & talk. And this is how, my best friend became my husband. Because we REALLY got to know each other. :thumbsup:

2469nascar's photo
Mon 04/13/15 02:36 PM



Wow.. everyone is different & at a different place in life.

Just as some men are thought of & accursed of ' thinking only with their penis' ( wanting young & attractive) Some women are accused of thinking in terms of money & property.

Women- the bearers of children- should bethinking about a man's financial status if she ever wants a family. And she has the right to choose financial security for herself : children or future children. And to live a lifestyle she is accustomed or desires.

thats just fine and dandie if your younger and want moor kids,but miny of us dont.so if your older is money the NO1 thing on your list?


Money never was NO1 on my list.
But WAS far more important with 'minor children' involved.

A this stage of my life:
Does he have debt?
Does he have grown children/ grandchildren at home & supporting.?
Still paying alimony.?

Are we compatible (main thing)?
Is he crazy?
Is he looking for a nurse?
Does he have erectile dysfunction?
:banana:
so being crazy is a bad thing?,,LOL

Annierooroo's photo
Tue 04/14/15 02:38 PM
Depends on the level and type of crazy.
: indifferent

I do agree with what is written. At my time of life i don't want any more hassel

no1phD's photo
Tue 04/14/15 02:59 PM

Getting a coffee through drive through parking up with a beautiful veiw and talking about random stuff. Getting to know each other.
(Tip, if you like her makes sure its a large one)
What ever you do even though your nervous have fun. Laugh. That is what you will remember not what you ate or drank.
Be happy. :smile:
Ohh.. I will give her a large one alright..lmao

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 04/14/15 03:11 PM
I prefer something in public. Too many weirdos out there or crazy exs scared

Putt putt? Yes I like that...silly fun.

FallenArtist's photo
Tue 04/14/15 08:23 PM
I have to agree with the clown. He's right the date outdoor's doing a picnic showing off ur skill's is great. Also for a first date being out around other in an open area will show that you have respect for her personal space also. Just be a sweet guy and cater to her. It'll go okay man. Not everyone is out for money. Oh and it's just a date. You're just getting to know her don't jump the gun. A lot of us guy's and girl's do and that is a big mistake. Just be yourself!

metalwing's photo
Tue 04/14/15 10:14 PM
Picnic is the way to go. It's what I did in college. Shine with the food. Use good sense with the location. Can't lose.

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