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I got into a relationship, my 1st relationship, when I was 14. SO, u can see it was pretty much like infatuation. But whatever i was feeling was true. I wanted to marry him, have kids and live together forever. And he was 8 years older to me. So I thought he was unlike those immature guys in my school who was after me. Sadly, after a year, I came to know about his reality crept under his veil. I was broken. And I cried like a kid. Well I too was a kid then.
Days passed and seriously, it didn't take me long enough to forget him now when I already started hating him. I cursed him for using me, getting physical with me and pretending so much. He already had another girlfriend and I was a BACKUP. I started flirting with boys and stopped being myself. Years later when i was a lil more mature, I met a guy apparently different than the X. He was ugly but his personality and charm made me fall for him. He too showed interest in me. Months later, he went back to his hometown and everything zapped. He turned into someone like the rest. Ignorance, indifference, no calls followed with his departure. And i knew I was fooled again. It's like a year I did not contact him but I still do miss him. I don't know if I still love him but yes, somewhere, he is there. Inside my heart. Now, I wonder what can be the reason that it doesn't work out with anyone. People came and went. And I'm tired of waiting for The One. |
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Hi i have just read your message. I got that you are a beautiful lady that has been taking advantage of. What Ido is write a list of what you want in a guy. DDon't be too quick to hand over your flower. If he is too pushy and want it when you don't then he is in it for himself and not for you. Don't make sex the main thing in your relationship. He needs to treasure you and treat you like the queen you are. Your photo shows your beauty from within you.
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Hi i have just read your message. I got that you are a beautiful lady that has been taking advantage of. What Ido is write a list of what you want in a guy. DDon't be too quick to hand over your flower. If he is too pushy and want it when you don't then he is in it for himself and not for you. Don't make sex the main thing in your relationship. He needs to treasure you and treat you like the queen you are. Your photo shows your beauty from within you. |
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Thank you. Comes from the heart.
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all I heard was something something flower..
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Edited by
SparklingCrystal 💖💎
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Sat 04/04/15 03:37 AM
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I don't mean to be overly cynical here... but you're 19 and you're tired of waiting for the one??
 From what I gather you wasted most of your teenage years worrying about guys, getting married and having children? Maybe it's a cultural thing... but shouldn't you be going to school, whinge about teachers and too much homework, idolize and fantasize about actors, hunky boys? Have gal-pals, giggle, talk about make-up and shoes? Go out, have fun, do the silly things teenage girls do? You can be married for some 50-60 years of your life (if you marry young). Your teenage/adolescent years only last some 5-6 years. Best enjoy them! You can get married 20 times if you want, you can NEVER EVER re-live and enjoy your teenage years again. Don't waste them! |
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Yes, she is from a different culture. Some of my cousins got married in their teens and had families. This is considered normal by my native country's standards. One of my cousins became a grandfather at 40. My aunt was a grandmother at 36. Not everyone in the world is playing with dolls in their teens. They mature early and are expected to settle down and have a family at a young age.
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I got into a relationship, my 1st relationship, when I was 14. SO, u can see it was pretty much like infatuation. But whatever i was feeling was true. I wanted to marry him, have kids and live together forever. And he was 8 years older to me. So I thought he was unlike those immature guys in my school who was after me. Sadly, after a year, I came to know about his reality crept under his veil. I was broken. And I cried like a kid. Well I too was a kid then. Days passed and seriously, it didn't take me long enough to forget him now when I already started hating him. I cursed him for using me, getting physical with me and pretending so much. He already had another girlfriend and I was a BACKUP. I started flirting with boys and stopped being myself. Years later when i was a lil more mature, I met a guy apparently different than the X. He was ugly but his personality and charm made me fall for him. He too showed interest in me. Months later, he went back to his hometown and everything zapped. He turned into someone like the rest. Ignorance, indifference, no calls followed with his departure. And i knew I was fooled again. It's like a year I did not contact him but I still do miss him. I don't know if I still love him but yes, somewhere, he is there. Inside my heart. Now, I wonder what can be the reason that it doesn't work out with anyone. People came and went. And I'm tired of waiting for The One. there is nothing wrong with you those idiots never deserved you. i feel whatever happens, happens for a good reason. life does not always offer us what we have desired. so be brave and move on. i know how hard is for someone to forget someone and to wait for their texts, their calls foolishly even we know they will not call. i have some advice for you. firstly forget the past and move on. and second never ever rush into any relationship, if u like someone or if someone likes you then give it some time to get to know each other. sex is very common now a days, dnt rush into it. we boys are dogs once we get the thing we loose interest in it(not everyone but many do this). take care, keep smilling and live ur life as u desire. and one more thing here if u ask people abt ur problems many will say different things like one said its cultural difference. our culture is different and theirs are different. so dnt get depressed if someone says harsh words. do whatever u want to do in ur life. |
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.... Now, I wonder what can be the reason that it doesn't work out with anyone. .... Is that your question? 
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yes i agreee wid prithvi ,he suggst u vry well. sex is a very commn thing for a boy they always want to make a gf & do sex wid her & then leave it...but u hve to choose who is better for u ...u hve to decide we selectin those guy who is totally good for me or nt...& never go fast for any relationship give sme time always then decide......
have a nice day 
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