i didnt even get flowers ida tossedem out tho, glad he saved his money. he'll need it for child support

Give it a few days and he will be back to stay.......the thing is, no contact with him for a while is what helps to make your decision work. Him popping in and out of your life now and using the children as an excuse for him to see you only proves that you will soften eventually. It's a natural response for cases like this.

It sounds good to hear people say on this post what you know is wrong and the outcome of such, but most of that went over ya head. Oh well, you are only human to feel vulnerable and fall for his crap again.

I know for anyone to seriously take action, it has to be something worse than you just experienced. In some cases, it's too late...

I feel for you but only you can save yourself and your children

it's time to put my big girl panties on and complete building the wall that he started putting up between us....any one have any xtra bricks??

If something about your relationship with your partner scares you and you need to talk, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY).

website (copy and paste in browser)
http://www.ndvh.org/

Don't live in fear
these people can help fi you really want out of an abusive relationship.
As for anger management, it doesn't work when the person believes they don't have a problem and want to blame it on the victim...

I hope this helps you

"tonight we were argueing and he hit me so i called the police and they arrested him. now im worried he's going to be extremely mad when he gets out and idk what he might do or what's going to happen"

go to your mom's, girlfriend, aunt whatever if he even looks at you funny.

sorry there is only 1 way to justify man hitting a woman - self defense, if woman is crazy and is coming at a man with a knife or a gun. short of that - sorry, not justified.

tell your husband that he should get treatment - failing that, you are getting a divorce.

Did you make a mistake? Based on what you said, maybe. But it depends on several factors, including "has he been cheating from the begining? How did the guy before him feel about you?
It would take forever, to list every factor. But so far, the problem is clearly his fault.

((((wabbit))))mayhap you haven't hit bottom yet?...I don't know...but I agree with what most people have said on this subject...I feel for you...
I know you have heard this already, it's like
Sin said..is that love?..to abuse you, cheat on you?..using the kids as a tool?..you and only you can make the decision..just remember that even tho u may feel somewhat isolated, alone, your not..there are so many resources today to help you and the kids..
I wish you well...my thoughts are with you..Good Luck and stay strong..