Topic: Mutual Matches sucks..
LivingByBeats's photo
Sun 10/07/07 09:18 PM
ps: that was me goofing around :| pls do not take seriously

s1owhand's photo
Sun 10/07/07 09:18 PM
well when mut match ain't working just go with who's viewed ya!!!

drinker

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Sun 10/07/07 09:19 PM
the only match i have already has a girlfriend huh and lives in a different state ohwell

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Sun 10/07/07 09:19 PM

I have'nt and never used that feature but I found my perfect match on here :tongue:

Jess642's photo
Sun 10/07/07 09:20 PM
John...go for a walk, grab a cooffee at the store, and smile at the waitress...the girl at the coffee bar who takes your order, even if she's 93..

Will she smile back?

Will she throw you a dirty look?

Who cares? You shed a little lovelight out there, unselfishly..


Mutual match is the same...no expectations...no disappointments..

Johncenawlife316's photo
Sun 10/07/07 09:23 PM
Jess642.. I highly doubt that is the same thing.

But that's just my view vs your's.

wizewizard70's photo
Sun 10/07/07 09:24 PM
I personally like the ones that send you a friend invite without sending a message... ummm, a message would be nice ya know, kinda an intro to who ya are. Or is this like myspace and its a popularity contest?
I have used the mutual match and just not many in my area, i guess, cuz its been unsuccessful so far.

Good thing, though, is that i have come across several great people so far!

Not complaining, just my 2 cents lol

John1992's photo
Sun 10/07/07 09:26 PM
Mingles (Jess)once you are on here awhile you will see that I have a sense of humor (Sometimes it's dark like in this post, others it's diffrent) Best thing to do is get used to it. And I tend to chat the watresses anyway, esp if it seems like a slow day for them.

eileena9's photo
Sun 10/07/07 09:28 PM
John1992...Jess's comment wasn't for you.....it was for the poster of the thread....Johncenawlife316....

Jess642's photo
Sun 10/07/07 09:29 PM
John, me? Mingles? Nup...JSH since march..and before that the other place...been here forever...ask me, I can tell you..

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Sun 10/07/07 09:29 PM
Hmm, the mutual match idea is a great one in my opinion but I have to say that it needs to be more location specific. I have recieved mutual matches that are 500 miles away and well, I'm not interested in a LDR personally. If they can fix that problem, it would kick some butt.bigsmile

Jess642's photo
Sun 10/07/07 09:29 PM
Thanks Eileena...


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Sun 10/07/07 09:30 PM
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tallymama's photo
Sun 10/07/07 09:33 PM
I have one mutual match and I had already sent an email and we are talking already before it showed as a mutual match.

Not giving any faith towards this site.

I have been on here for months and only had one person reply.

I have more success on singlesnet than here.


John1992's photo
Sun 10/07/07 09:33 PM
Thankx guys I seem to have a crossover error between two topics. Now we gotr that straight.blushing

tallymama's photo
Sun 10/07/07 09:38 PM
maybe i just need to change my pic to something serious instead of a smile. What is the purpose of mutual match anyway? I can do a search just like they act as if they are and still manage to get no replies.

nurjoyce's photo
Sun 10/07/07 09:38 PM
i have had numerous matches, however i do not talk to any of them. i initiated contact with several and got a one time short reply back. i think it is more of a "do you find the person above you attractive" thing.

pkh's photo
Sun 10/07/07 09:40 PM
I don't think a lot go to that any more,just try emailing people who have viewed you or some one who catches your eye.

eileena9's photo
Sun 10/07/07 09:40 PM
Tally....maybe if you posted here in the threads more, more women will get a chance to see you and get to know you....that is how I met my soulmate on here!! Good luck to all!!

tallymama's photo
Sun 10/07/07 09:52 PM
Unfortunately for the ladies in here, I am not looking for a female. I do like my sausage. I get on when I can but I am a full time cololege student and do not get to pop in here too often. I also must confess that I have MS and that tends to run men away. Maybe I need to take my pic away. It could be scaring them. (LOL)